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We are playmates looking to explore stimulating experiences with open-minded couples, individuals or groups. Neither of us are novices to the lifestyle or the 'fetish circuit', although it doesn't define either of us as individuals. We feel that although the 'kink' aspect is always appealing, we also feel that our minds must be stimulated too. In other words, we would appropriate similar-minded people, who can carry a conversation on a variety of topics, before we progress to brain is the biggest sexual organ after all.

We are:

A 35-year-old male, originally from Kensington, London, moved to South Africa permanently about a year ago. What I love most about it here (apart from the braais and wine) is the friendly attitude of the majority of South Africans, and who's to forget the stunning women here too. Just a shame about the weather... 

I'm an entrepreneur in a creative industry by day, and a kinkster by night. 

My 'partner in crime' is a 35-year-old (although I personally believe she's much younger, and her ID is blatantly lying to me) born and raised Capetonian. She has been absolutely fantastic in schooling me on local culture, with a great mind and soul, and an epic looks to boot.

We have become great friends and playmates and are looking forward to many a new experience/adventure with like-minded people.

We are REALLY not interested in NSA hook-ups, 'winks' or unsolicited photo album invites. The same goes for friend requests: if you haven't read this far, or simply couldn't be bothered to show some effort in communicating with us, you will be ignored, so please let's not waste each other's time. 

If you like what you see AND read here and want to get in touch, please do drop us an email, but, as the saying goes, please 'use your words'... And if you really want to show us you've read THIS far AND respect who we are and what we want from our experiences here, you could even do something cute, like put the name of any British town or city in the subject line of your email. 

We just added these last two paragraphs because we've been flooded with meaningless contact from people whose interest(s) in us is unclear, but their disregard for THIS section of our profile is not, and it's rather disappointing having to delete so much because it's not what we have said we want here. 

For example, we've set an age limit: if you and/or your partner fall outside that limit, please don't bother. Also, and this goes mostly for the single men: please make it clear whether you're interested in playing with us as a couple or just with one of us. It's not only confusing but slightly disrespectful to ignore one half of this partnership. We're here together for a reason.

If you're STILL reading this and don't think we're big ol' meanies or snobs, you just might be our kinda people. We don't mean to sound full of it, we just don't want our time wasted so we thought we'd spell out what was implied in the first part of this section.

FESTIVE SEASON

We both happen to be on holiday in the Overberg area until a week or so after NYE, so if anyone in this area wants to get together for drinks or coffee and a chat, please drop us a mail (not a wink... *wink*)...