Looking at going to Sandy Bay on the weekend..perhaps during the week next week as well, depends on the weather.

Your primary concern would be radiated heat, therefore you need a barrier. An apron will do the trick.

Seems the original post was 10 years ago - wonder what happened?

The wife would enjoy one or two guys wanking for her..under the right circumstances - safe environment, not pushy etc..

Nice topic.

Running any sort of resort takes quite a bit of capital and time. In an economy where the availability of disposable cash is retracting, I would question the financial feasibility, hence sustainability of a project such as this. It has been tried a few years ago in the Western Cape (with international markets) and from what I recall, in Limpopo, and didn't prove sustainable.

The other route is to open such resort to naturists, but just be aware that many naturists / nudists do not openly support or agree with swinging.

Personally I would agree with daphil on the model proposed by them, of hiring out a small venue / resort in toto for a given period such as a weekend and marketing that as an event rather.

Nice environment, pool is great, the place has come a long way..looking at going there again this Sunday if the weather behaves :-)

Club Rome is probably the oldest of the clubs. Been a few changes but still good.

Also into Scuba - I know of some other swinger divers too - perhaps Bass Lake / Marico Oog and then down to the coast? Anyone else keen?

Hi, just keep watching the ads. There are couples out there that do just this. We certainly started out like that and have decided that we will stick to soft play rather than hard core swinging. We have developed an awesome friendship with one couple near us and we go on vanilla outings such as hikes, drives etc with them as well as getting naughty together - that makes for a far more sustainable friendship than just playing every time we see each other...so you guys hand in there, what you are looking for does exist. Have fun and have an awesome Christmas :-)

We played at a club in Cape Town a little while ago and were both turned on when we realised that others were watching us, especially turned on by one couple watching us where the lady was so aroused, she was stroking her partners cock while they watched us. Mind-blowing stuff.