After having taken a break of a good couple of months, I am back on the site and the imagination and fantasies are running high. And although a picture usually tells a thousand words, I am not interested in them. The person behind the pic is more important to me. So gentlemen, I am not interested in how big, small, gorgeous or pathetic your manhood is. I rather know more about you as a person, your dreams, your fantasies, the way you seduce a woman. Not interested in men that could be one of my children and thus will not respond to any messages sent. I like to be seduced by words, words that tantalize the mind, the words that ask for more.... so just HI does not do it for me and will be ignored categorically. Swinging and having fun is one thing, but before and after you must be able to keep a conversation going. There is more than just plain sex. So let it be you that seduces me the way I like it.