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Jesshotwife
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 48
0 km · Johannesburg

About

NSA FWB - I am looking to establish some "NO STRINGS ATTACHED FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" relationships. Looking to meet couples in strong and confident relationships, well hung CIRCUMSIZED GENTLEMAN, ladies or unicorns for honest, uncomplicated sex and friendship.

I am a happily married wife in a healthy, secure and open marriage to my soul mate for life. My husband is a true voyeur and likes to watch and share me and hear in detail about my sex-ploits when he is not available to watch, both of which are his pleasures and reward for allowing me to have my extra-marital variety and fun. I love & prefer for him to watch me, giving and receiving pleasure, which pleases me, as I enjoy the physical pleasure & from variety of lovers. This is an arrangement that works well for our marriage. Neither of us are into the Humiliation or degradation side of this lifestyle on any level. I want to keep it clean, honest and above all, I require total discretion and respect, at all times!!!

Please read the following carefully:

DO NOT SEND winks or friend requests. I will decline them all. Send a message after reading my FULL profile, especially towards the end!!! 

STRICTLY NO SMOKERS! Deal breaker!! I have no pleasure in kissing, licking or even trying to enjoy an ashtray! Tried it, it does not work for me! NO SMOKERS, not even occasional or social smokers, an ashtray is still an ashtray even if it is not being used. Brushing your teeth or using breath fresheners DOES NOT disguise or hide your filthy, disgusting and selfish habit. 100% DEAL BREAKER on every level. 

I am definitely NOT looking for romance or complicated/dishonest ‘friendships’ and ESPECIALLY NO cheaters, frauds or 'players'. If you are involved, engaged or married and your significant other does NOT know about, or participate or support you in these activities of yours, please don't waste my time! 

Anybody PIC hunting - you are wasting both of our time. So, do not ask!! No pics EVER!! I REPEAT - I WILL NEVER SHARE PICS EVER !!

MALES - Only single, well hung & preferably circumcised, old school style gentlemen >17+cm or bigger need contact me & you better be able to prove it. PLEASE READ the previous conditionS again carefully!

COUPLES - I would like to make friends and play with couples in full threesome FMF, FFM. MFM with my hubby quietly watching. Couples must be open-minded, liberated and their relationship must be strong, mature, secure, loving and both be willing and wanting to share and be shared - no jealousy streaks or insecurities - share and be shared.  No male bi-play either. 

FEMALES – Ladies, no cheaters. One-on-one with my hubby as the discreet audience.

UNICORNS - I would really like to have a 3some with my hubby, but only if there is mutual attraction and we are all comfortable and interested to play with each other.

I am only interested in befriending sincere, open minded and honest persons who will respect and honour discretion and my preferences – I will not be pulled into any high maintenance or complicated scenarios!

My life does not revolve around my Vixen HotWife lifestyle choice. I am neither desperate nor compelled and enslaved by it. I know what I want, what I need, what turns me on or off and what does not work for me. I am under no obligation to anyone.

Definitely NOT into any drugs, weed or ANY other stimulant even if it is legal. I Do not want to be anywhere near or around any of that crap or anyone who has or needs it. Please, if that is your thing or you need it to perform, then we are definately not going to click. 

If you contact me, you need to insert the words "Read, Agreed & Understood" in the subject line, which will tell me you have read and my whole profile, both understanding and thus respecting me and that if you do not meet my preferences & criteria, not waste either of our time.  Please don't take chances. I know what I want, period. I am astounded by how many Bull Shitters, Arrogant arseholes & chancers miss this KEY requirement, fail this 'test' and you will not be treated or responded to kindly.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation and intrusion of my personal privacy and subject to legal prosecution.

Interests

Adult parties
Clubs and Parties
Double Penetration
Exhibitionism
Gang bangs
Group sex
Masturbation
Oral sex
Outdoor sex
Phone sex
Role play
Safe Sex
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Seeking

Age: 32 - 50
Distance: 90 km