Hi 🙂 he is married and i am married, to different people and find ourselves together happy and exploring. We are new to the lifestyle and at just stage just trying to get some exposure so that we may be able to figure out what kind of experience we would want to gain out of it . I think for now, our thoughts are in the direction of including a third person into out space, a female for him. Im not sure as yet how i feel about swinging so for now im happy to observe, go slow and participate in a way that is comfortable for me . We did go to a swingers club and I found it a bit overwhelming. So here we are trying to see if introducing this in small doses will work for us. He has a dad bod and whilst im average built, I lost an incredible amount of weight which comes with some insecurities abt everything that has gone down south 😝 please no single guys at this stage. Whilst we are looking at a female, we could consider a couple if I'm not under pressure to partake