If we’re tossing around adjectives, you could say I’m the respectful, funny, and open-minded type. Introverted but not shy—I’m just saving my energy for the right conversations. Educated enough to hold my own at a dinner party, and kind enough to make sure no one feels left out. Generosity is my love language, and whether it’s time, attention, or affection, I’m happy to share with those who deserve it.

Vanilla Me:
When I’m not delving into the more primal side of life, I’m out here maintaining a life that’s as healthy as my gym routine. Fitness is both a passion and a commitment—expect hikes, walks, and the occasional groan as I swap out my book for a kettlebell. Speaking of books, I devour them like they’re going out of style. (Pro tip: The quickest way to my heart might just be swapping book recommendations.)

Kinky Me:
I’m currently on a journey of discovery in this beautifully complex realm we call kink. While I’ve spent the past four years navigating the community as a bull, I’m realizing there’s still so much more to explore. My dominant side feels like home, but I believe self-discovery is a process—and I’m enjoying every step of figuring out who I truly am.

Why Am I Here?
Let’s be honest: society’s idea of “normal” can be a bit suffocating. I’m here to peel back those layers and lean fully into the raw, primal urges I’ve kept at bay. This is about creating a safe, judgment-free space to embrace my authentic self.

What I’m looking for:

• A long-term partner who’s equally curious, adventurous, and ready to dive into this world alongside me.

• Genuine connections with people in the community. Whether it’s learning, growing, or simply exchanging a laugh, I value those who bring something meaningful to the table.

Respectful, curious minds are always welcome here.