Good luck and have fun. The lifestyle is amazing when you find the right friends.

Quote by fadnad

So over December me and hubby did ABIT of an experiment with the black rings we purchased the black rings for both of us on our trip to Sun city we had it on the entire weekend and surprisingly it worked especially in the casino we had 1 single guy approach us and surprisingly we had 2 couples ask if we were in the lifestyle

So I guess the black rings do still work I think next going to try the pineapple

Does help that you're such a sexy couple.

Quote by Keen269

I have a sticker of an upside down pineapple on my phone, easy to publicise in a public place, just leave the phone face down on the table :-) No approaches so far yet, but then agan, just recently started to do this form of recognition.

That's a great idea!

Quote by CuriousCoupl3

We are brand new on to the scene based in Sandton, looking for like minded couples only, who would love to go have fun and if we vibe together. We can see where the night takes us.

Welcome! Enjoy the lifestyle. It's amazing if you find the good folks.

Quote by Keen269

Have dedicated smoking areas away from the general lounge/ bar and play areas and keep prices reasonable.

Smoking is such a turn-off. Totally agree

1: Don't be a doos,

2: Know that you are one of a million, so you need to stand out,

3: Have a proper introduction. One-word openers don't work.

4: Don't be a doos.

5: Read!! Make sure that you fit in with the profile requirements of those you contact. Especially age range!

6: If you say you are going to be somewhere, be there!

7: Don't be a doos

8: Never send a dick pic unless you are asked for a dick pic, then send a dick pic.

Bring the costs down. And stop with the silly dress-up themes. We're there to play!

Quote by Tosie1975

I send you a DM, Mam JandAjhb 😉

Doesn't answer our question.

Quote by Tosie1975

Send you a DM.

Why not share it publicly?

Quote by selvin_pillay

Hi there...

Interested..... lets maybe start with a PVT chat?

But your profile is that of a single guy. They say they are looking for a couple.

It's in Fairland

It was really fun to meet you!

We're off to New Rome on Friday. Who's joining us? We've not been to the new spot.

Hey all

How do you use "friend" on the site?

The reason we ask is we often get a friend request and we then send a message thanking the requester. But then we get no reply.

We like to use friend for people that we would play with.

But what do you use it for?

Quote by H0twife69

Hi guys - We are a straight male/female couple, gathering info on the related topic for same race gang bang.
Is there a possibility of these type of gang bangs actually happen at clubs or parties?
Anyone here that succesfully executed this?

https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/profile/GangbangBoys

Nope. No such fantasy.

Quote by Powercouple1

I have a question....is anyone allowed to fuck anyone or is permission req

Consent is sexy. Always ask permission.

Quote by letschat102

We will be at sun eden for a few days between the 16 and 22 Feb.

Now we have a reason to pop in for the day. Let's meet.

Quote by fadnad

Hi anyone going to the sexpo jhb this weekend

You guys think it will be fun this year

What makes it fun?

Quote by adventurecpl5

Desnudo Near Lanseria is a nudist resort that are much more lifestyle friendly . Lots of swinging couples prefer to visit

When you say "swinger friendly", what do you mean?

Yep. We do find people are very shy about chatting at first. But it's such a good spot. Spend a few hours there last weekend.

Quote by Newbies8489

We like going to sun eden. We know it's a family oriented place . My question is how do you go about meeting people in the lifestyle or with the same interests. Obviously public play is a no no . But what about just meeting like minded. People. We don't want to just walk around asking each and every person if they in the lifestyle just to make friends.

It's definitely not a place to look for swingers. It's a naturist resort, not a swinger resort. Any sort of sexual actions are frowned upon and you will be asked to leave and not return. Don't confuse the two lifestyles.

You need better friends,

People are shallow. Our best playmates have been with larger folks.

But let the skinny People be. They will learn