Quote by fadnad
So this is my thoughts on this topic me and hubby are fine with male and female who are playing with out consent never judge a book by its cover you don't know what made that person choose to cheat or play alone the only thingfor us as a consenting couple you keep us out your drama
Like we have this single guy we got close with and he is playing with out consent but not because he wants but because his wife refuses to explore sexually with him his opened up to her and she does not give a damn so again you don't know why that person is choosing to play alone
I agree 100%. Everyone is in a different situation and under different conditions / circumstances. I am in a similar boat as mentioned above in that my wife has been given an open door to suggest or do whatever she wants, with or without me, but to merely be open and honest about it and have nothing to hide. She is not even willing to discuss sex and fantasies etc and I am the complete opposite so it can cause friction. It's easier to leave it as it is (because I've tried over and over many times to even discuss it) and do what gets you off. If a partner does not even want to discuss sex never mind try different things or even positions, then I feel they are not part of the sexual portion of a marriage but why should the other be left in the dark and ignored. This is not only my situation but I know females who are in the same position but feel they have no right to "cheat" in order to get what they want. To each their own as long as you hurt nobody.