The botanical gardens could be nice for day fun..mmm , will consider in the day as we are both very busy and it could not always be possible.
It seems that we will have to maybe setup a place, will drive around this weekend to see if we can find possible places.
Maybe at first work on a invite only setup to ease into this type of lifestyle as we are a bit nervous but also exited.
Thailand maybe you must come and assist us here in the lowveld..
We are not avid users of this site but the Dogging Forum has caught our eye and we have been following the happenings of the feather club and it sounds like something we would consider joining but germiston lake is just to far for us.
We went online to find out more about dogging and found alot of clips from the UK and liked the idea of this.
One concern we have is safety (location)
Is there anything happening closer to Nelspruit?
There's two sides to this as a couple we are serious but you do not know between all these mails who the person really is and who is only here to see your private album (perv) and who as we experienced before only wants a one thing. We have a few "friends" and have been through these wasting of our time singles/couples and it's very hard with these type of profiles to really know the person you are talking to and to find out if they want a friendship (with benefits sometimes not always) or just a quicky. It went so far for us on this site that we removed pics and our description and will reply to those we think is here for the same reasons as we are.
We have found couples can become pushy and single men more relaxed but still the problem of why are you here? and why are we here? and when there's some sort of attraction from both parties then yes it could be taken further.
Small things we normally look for. 1. no dick photos - you do not need to impress the wife. only when such a photo is requested yes by all means 2. profile description - the more information the better. 3. do not be pushy. 4. attraction to the real photos on profile.
All of that said I do agree at least reply but remember there are users not on this site everyday, we at least try to come online once a week. If possible we come online more but that's not always the case.