Been on the site for a number of years now, met some awesome people.  I don't meet up much anymore as I am seeking more intimacy and connection rather than one off's.  If I don't reply to your message it just means that it is a mismatch. I am very specific about what I want, aesthetics are primary. With respect to everybody, I will only consider meeting people who are slim. If you do wish to chat with me, please send a photo, as you have clearly responded to mine, and only fair that I have the same opportunity to have an idea who I am communicating with, I will not reply to messages that dont have pics and a photo of a penis does not qualify.  Guys if you send a first messages like "I want to penetrate every orifice" to woman don't be surprised if you are ignored, the biggest sex organ is the brain and comments like that speak volumes.