Divorced, single and happy to stay that way. Please respect privacy. I do. Couples over 45 only please and who know what they want. No single guys please, and no bi-curious wanting to experiment please. Don't do hook ups. Happy to exchange messages (for a while), but nothing happens until we can have an actual ftf conversation. Respect boundaries and expect same. Gents, I am not after your dick unless its what we all want. Sorry to b so blunt, but been there done that and don't want more T shirts. Great fun can be had by like-minded people who respect each other. I am comfortable with my identity - please be too.