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Any of you had any experiance with polyandry
We were looking for a suitable bi male for such a relationship for years but no luck. Eventually gave up.
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Over 90 days ago
Bisexual White/Caucasian Male, 72
Bisexual Asian Female, 55
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Walking along in the Sahara, Joe and Suzy are becoming a tad hungry. After all, it's been 2 months since their last meal.
They happen across a goodly-sized camel. Problem is, they love lamb. Not really camel-meat fans, our intrepid pair.
Not really a question to agonise about, is it. Adapt or die. 
I'm Caucasian my wife is Asian. What I have to smile about is the mails I get that the sender's profile states this colour line preference issue. I guess what they mean is black. Or a pretty, sexy Asian just overwhelms their prefs. Or maybe a combo of pretty and female is the catalyst.
Doesn't matter to me, really. It is not a hard line racist thing necessarily, though it is a red flag for racism. Does not mean I will exclude them from consideration automatically, just think about it harder.
Sexual prefs are valid. Whatever they are, including race/culture. My bedroom is not a public facility, no need 'to offer an opportunity' to anybody.
I see no problem with such a statement in a profile. But then I've yet to go PC crazy.
'Men are pigs'. Rubbish. That's a cop out.
It's difficult to simplify by saying SA men tend to be a bit primitive and unevolved, but to some extent that's true. Making excuses for that by blaming porn and the basic nature of men is a sign of weakness. A man takes responsibility for his own actions and attitude.
I've been on many swingers sites over the past 20 years, from all over the world. A depressingly great many SA men on this one do act like pigs, but it is not because they are pigs. It is probably because they have not been educated and traveled much.
A favourite is 'but this is a sex site'. No, it's a swingers site. SwingingHeaven NOT SexHeaven. There's a vast difference between the two. Find out what it is.
From the male of a couple's perspective: If I was a single male, approaching me with the 'wanna fuck' line is fine, as the husband of a female it certainly isn't. You are showing a mindset that will reduce my wife to a free whore. That's not why we swing. I am being patient by not reacting to the insult and simply deleting your mail.
The insult is to the female, not me. Geddit?
You are not a pig. You are uneducated, primitive and being a pig. There's a difference.
And FFS, PLEASE learn to read. Show some respect - for yourself.
An old thread, but for what it's worth let me add my tuppence.
Having been in the lifestyle as a couple for about 10 years seeking decent single males for a sexual friendship, here's my take.
Finding a single male can be a depressing experience at times. Floods of primitive mails. Picture sitting at a fire in the bush surrounded by hungry, salivating wolves.
So for the decent single guy who tries to understand why couples swing mmf it's really not that different from finding a decent girlfriend in vanilla life. Show some manners, intelligence and - I hesitate to use the word - respect. And do try to tone the testosterone levels down with something.
It's depressing how many guys think they're every woman's wet dream come true. Couples mostly don't swing because wifey is not being satisfied by hubby. It is highly unlikely you will make her knees buckle with your six-pack and ++++incher, causing her to run after you begging for more.
If you are interesting, 'respectful', understand you're not there to replace hubby, can string a couple of sentences together in reasonable fashion and most importantly can read, you could become sought-after.
Edit/ By decent I do not mean boring, or sans lust. I mean sort of civilized. And if you are the Alpha type, that's fine, as long as you understand Alpha does not mean loud, rude and primitive.
So for the decent single guy who tries to understand why couples swing mmf it's really not that different from finding a decent girlfriend in vanilla life. Show some manners, intelligence and - I hesitate to use the word - respect. And do try to tone the testosterone levels down with something.
It's depressing how many guys think they're every woman's wet dream come true. Couples mostly don't swing because wifey is not being satisfied by hubby. It is highly unlikely you will make her knees buckle with your six-pack and ++++incher, causing her to run after you begging for more.
If you are interesting, 'respectful', understand you're not there to replace hubby, can string a couple of sentences together in reasonable fashion and most importantly can read, you could become sought-after.
Edit/ By decent I do not mean boring, or sans lust. I mean sort of civilized. And if you are the Alpha type, that's fine, as long as you understand Alpha does not mean loud, rude and primitive. 