We have been in the lifestyle for number of years now.  We have taken a bit of a break from being really active in the lifestyle.  Kids change you more than what you may think ;). We enjoy meeting like-minded people, however we are a bit on the shy side... 

We are both now in our naughty 40's so we like to do things together that makes life interesting and enjoyable.  We prefer to play together so that we both get involved in the action