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Dwindy1629
1 day ago
Heteroflexible White/Caucasian Female, 41
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 52
0 km · Queensburgh

About

PLEASE READ OUR PROFILE BEFORE MAKING CONTACT.

SINGLE GUYS

  • WE DON'T DO HOOKUPS JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A SUDDEN AND SPONTANEOUS URGE.

  • IF YOUR PROFILE IS NOT COMPLETE AND INCLUSIVE OF A PROFILE PICTURE, WE ARE DEFINITELY NOT INTERESTED.

  • YOUR RANDOM FRIEND REQUEST WILL BE IGNORED IF YOU DO NOT EVEN HAVE THE DECENCY TO SEND US AND INTRO MESSAGE WITH YOUR INTENT.

  • NO CHEMISTRY / CONNECTION - IT'S DEFINITELY NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.

ABOUT US

We have been together for 25 years and happily married for 23 years. Joining the lifestyle was something that we had been speaking about literally since the time that we've met and was a mutual decision, although we only actively started participating 12 years ago due to the fact that we prioritized family and business. During the past 12 years we have learnt a lot through our own experiences and the experiences of others. Both of us very much enjoy the lifestyle, entertaining guests and simply having a great time, hence, we started our own lifestyle club (Sultry Noir) in 2021. This was started with the intention of educating newbies, providing a safe space for like-minded people to get together and not utilised as our own personal playground. We are fun, outgoing, open to new experiences and foster the friendships made with all those who share the same values as us.

As with all peeps who join the lifestyle and have been actively participating over many years, our rules and boundaries have been adjusted according to our comfort levels. Our communication between ourselves is 100% and so is our communication with potential playmates. You will always know where you stand in that regard and there will be no misleading from our side.

OUR PLAYMATES AND PLAYING PREFERENCES

When it comes to couples:

  • Full swap

  • We only play together when it comes to couples - no exceptions.

  • We believe that if everyone is not on the same page and happy, we should skip the experience altogether. (All in or all out.)

  • No specific type - as long as there is chemistry and comfort.

  • We only play at Clubs and do not get together for private play.

When it comes to single ladies:

  • Full swap

  • Mr Sultry is allowed to play on his own, but we sometimes play together depending on mood and circumstances.

  • No specific type - as long as there is chemistry and comfort.

  • We only play at Clubs and not get together for private play.

When it comes to single guys:

  • Full swap

  • Mrs Sultry is allowed to play on her own, but we sometimes play together depending on mood and circumstances.

  • No specific type - as long as there is chemistry and comfort

  • We only play at Clubs and not get together for private play.

MRS SULTRY:

Petite with a naughty, yet teasing and feisty attitude.  Very much enjoys bondage and light BDSM (Switch). She is extremely picky with who she plays with and does not believe in taking or having her partner take one for the team. If she is not 100% comfortable, she won't play. Any guy that is forward and too pushy already stands no chance. In other words, she wants confidence, not arrogance. She enjoys entertaining and making sure that everyone has an awesome time.

MR SULTRY:

Tall and built for speed. He has one of those personalities that can get along with everyone. A lover, not a fighter. He is not very much into the BDSM scene but is always willing to experiment on the softer side of it. Sensory play (Blindfolded) is a huge turn on for him when giving or receiving, but he is always focused on ensuring that the lady is well pleasured.

We are in the lifestyle for the fun and experience, so we don't do drama and politics at all.  If you as a couple are not 100% secure in your relationship and/or not comfortable with playing, we are not the right couple for you.

WARNING:

Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects -You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Vouches

Absolutely awesome couple,who host the most amazing parties in Durban. No swinger party in Durban comes close to this.

One of our Favorite couples who host absolutely awesome parties in Durban! Very down to earth, friendly and welcoming, would recommend them and their awesome events any day!

Interests

Adult parties
Clubs and Parties
Double Penetration
Exhibitionism
Gang bangs
Group sex
Groups
Holidays
Oral sex
Safe Sex
Same Room Swapping
Separate Room Swapping
Spanking
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism
Watersports

Seeking

Male
Female
Single Non-binary
Couple
Female Couple
Couple with Non-binary
Age: 25 - 70
Distance: 180 km