Garth, definitely interested, please tell me that there will be a lady present?
Hit the nail on the head, have seen a couple of instances where couples decided to "try" out the lifestyle leading to divorce because half was having fun and the other half got jealous.
This is a serious decision for any couple to make and if there is any hesitance on the side of either partner DO NOT DO IT!!!
My advice is:
Before any couple wants to test the waters think it through, discuss it, agree on it with no reservations and have a cooling down period of at least a month before discussiong it again, it will help avoid any unpleasentness later on and make sure both partners are aligned.
Talk before and after each meet to ensure that everyone is still OK, do this for at least the first 3 meets.
Experience comes later, trust is always first!!
I fear we have a long way to go before this will ever be as spontaneous as it is in Europe.
With our current culture everyone who is willing to do this is to afraid of what can happen if there is a bunch of pushy, arrogant people who cant take NO for an answer.
For now the only solution is to have an arranged meet with carefully selected individuals who have hopefully met before (over coffee sounds good)
As for all of those who judge I say live and let live. If I am happy having fun with my partner/s and no-one is being hurt why interfere, and why should I interfere with what my neighbour is doing, as long as no one is being physically or mentally hurt.
We only live once, live it to it's fullest and ignore the idiots at the roadside who wish they were living the way we do.
there is a reason it is called a Lifestyle :twisted:
my vote for best 3some will probably be if I could ever have a set of twins :uhoh:
best one to date was with an ex and her bff
I think things have changed (to an extent), I am Indian, I have been with White, Coloured and Black ladies, no issues, you do get some funny stares when going out though :twisted:
Verhona has left the building
did this happen or is it still in planning?
I'm in, Thandie let me know where and when
I live in Vaalpark, this would be perfect!!
damn missed this, let us know when it's going to happen again
anything happening or is quiet