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CuriousMel
Over 90 days ago
Pan White/Caucasian Female, 33
0 km · Kleinmond

About

PLEASE READ EVERYTHING BEFORE RESPONDING

No married men playing without consent I am a grown woman and refuse to sneak around just because you can't be honest with your partner.

Edit: Couples, just because I'm single doesn't mean I have any less worth than your partner ... This isn't all about you. I'm here for my own enjoyment too ... My time is precious, my body is my own and if you can't respect me as a human with a life and feelings then you shouldn't even read past this!! And be nicer to single guys too, they aren't all just looking for a fuck!!

So after 3 years of lifestyle I thought I should really update my profile again.

I have learnt alot from the lifestyle regarding friendships, relationships and self awareness.

To truly enjoy sex one must be open minded yet very very self aware it is a very spiritual experience that can easily be lost due to miscommunication. 

It is not possible for me to have sex with someone I can't have a open and honest conversation with about life, politics, physical and mental health. I have no problem if NSA is your thing it's just not mine and I'm looking for true community with the people I decide to share my vessel with.

I am a normal person I have a life outside swinging and no I am not constantly horny or dressed up like some sex kitten, more often than not when you try to stir up a sex chat I'm probably in my mismatched PJs chilling infront of the TV with my family or actually reading a book that has absolutely nothing to do with sex. 

I love smoking weed and having a few drinks, but I also enjoy a run and a healthy meal. I work hard and play hard. (Working hard being my first priority).

I am not a prostitute do not treat me like one- especially not a dumb one.
I don't send naked photos and videos - that you can buy from me. Im sorry but a girl has got to live ... The play is absolutely free of charge should we hit it off ... 

I am a polyamorous pansexual. I am here to meet fun loving intelligent and professional people that can keep an open mind no matter what your sexual orientation, age or race. And if you are a homophobe or racist please move along, we'll have nothing in common. If you feel like constantly sexting please move along ... 

I am open to platonic friendships aswell we don't have to fuck to be friends but we have to be friends to be able to fuck. 

The 3 condom rule still stands and no exceptions will be made ... 

Please read my rules:

I do not play without condoms ... The guy is responsible for 3 high quality condoms of his choice but I keep one(unused) as a trophy.

I don't do drama ... If I feel jealousy from either partners I remove myself from the situation

Im in the lifestyle to make friends its not just wham bam thank you mam. I prefer the day/night to be a social the play is a bonus 

Women have the vagina they make the rules 

And no really does mean no ...

That's it ... Sexually I'm open to almost anything just don't leave me with marks or bruises. And no weird stuff like scat play or golden showers

And lastly:
I'm not a member and can't send 100's of inbox messages. So drop your Whats App no if you expect a reply. If I don't see that then I won't even be bothered to reply to be honest because then you clearly did not read my profile

Vouches

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Finally after many years chatting, I met Mel, this beautiful, free and extraordinary soul. Spending time with here is priceless
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Amazing human sexy woman and now a true friend !!

Interests

Adult parties
B & D
Clubs and Parties
Exhibitionism
Group sex
Holidays
Making videos
Masturbation
Oral sex
Safe Sex
Same Room Swapping
Spanking
Straight sex
Threesomes

Seeking

Male
Female
Single Trans Male
Single Trans Female
Single Non-binary
Couple
Male Couple
Female Couple
Couple with Trans Female
Couple with Trans Male
Age: 18 - 45
Distance: 150 km