UPDATE - April 2024: We will try and update this profile over the next few weeks, including taking and uploading new photos to better reflect the current reality for those very interested in seeing who they are engaging with. Our time is very much taken up with the Casa Kink club in Montague Gardens and we don't check this profile very often at all, so please don't message us about weekly events or directions here - you might not get a response for weeks...rather go to the Casa Kink website or our club account here in SH (https://www.swingingheaven.za.com/clubs/casa-kink). Also, as this is our personal play account and not the club account, we don't just accept friend requests unless we've met (and ideally played) - we are not friend collectors and you will see from the very small list.

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UPDATE - December 2023: We are both fairly busy with the Casa Kink Club and Downstairs @ Casa Kink, the two venues we have opened in the last year or so. We are both interested in meeting and playing, but time is a challenge so it may require to organisisng. We're not really into the chatting and picture swapping. Pappa_Bear is still more interested in sexy fun with other SH'ers, but is not prepared to risk family and friends just because he has a constant itch that he would like to scratch  ...but he does check his single profile way more regularly than we check this one. 

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Hate to start the bio negatively, but as people clearly don't read all of it, we're putting this statement up front and in bold: 

We understand every relationship is different, but we're not interested in people who are in a relationship and playing without their partner and without their partner's permission.

Now that's out the way, we can move on to the important stuff.

We're a very happily married couple looking to have a bit (or a lot) of naughty fun. We've always discussed the threesome/foursome fantasy for all our married years, and have been making it a reality for a while now....and having SO MUCH fun doing it rather than talking about it.

Both of us are loving exploring our bi-curiosity.  This bi-side is a significant part for us of the attraction to playing with others, so we are very keen to find bi men, women and couples to continue this adventure with. We're looking to find couples where at least one partner is bi or bi curious, or for singles that are bi. At this point we'd be overjoyed to find a bi or very bi-curious lady who is willing to play with us. Please be assured that we are respectful, so if you are a couple and only one of you is bi or bi-curious, we will respect that fully and will not push the boundaries (unless you want us to).

Our ultimate is the idea of a 4sum or moresum where everyone plays together without gender boundaries, all just enjoying each other.

We are a straightforward, no nonsense couple with little or no tolerance for drama. We would love to find regular playmates that can be more than just the sexual - dinners out, braai's at home with our family, etc. Real friends with benefits...

We are open to playing together or separately, and he has a single account as well for those times when he plays as a single.

We are polyamorous and are both open to romantic and committed relationships with someone other than each other. We believe in open and honest communication - consensual non-monogamy with everyone fully aware what's going on.

We are surprisingly 'out there' and there are more than a few X's to go with the L's in our body sizes...but we are what we are, and what you see is what you get. We both love giving pleasure as much as receiving it....and are kinky as fuck too!

Please don't send us a friend request if we haven't even communicated previously ...we will just deny it which is a waste of time...please chat to us in the Pool or send us a message first. We are always up for a message...and then...well, you will just have to contact us and see...