My relationship is a bit complicated to say the least, so for now I prefer to chat on here. 

I'm very straight, thanks, no bi or gay men. 

I am here for many reasons. Fundamentally, I am here to have authentic and meaningful interactions with the kink/swing community, to learn, to grow, to become a better person while connecting with the dark, dirty, twisted, interesting, and amazing people here, and yes... also to hopefully meet partners, and perhaps even a LTR. However, dating is not my focus.

Growth, connections, and becoming better are my primary focus. I'd love to find a compatible and capable mentor. I am always interested in becoming better... better skilled, but also a better person. If you happen to catch yourself thinking "I like that" to something here, then I want to hear from you. If you happen to think "Fuck yeah!" to something, then I definitely want to hear from you 😏.