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Chocolateseduce
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual White/Caucasian Female, 41
0 km · Kraaifontein

About

NB : Do NOT contact me if you're playing behind your partner/SO's back.
I'm looking for someone who will give me a space to be myself and not the person I have to be for everybody else in my life. I have a lot of stress in my life, so I really do appreciate some TLC and although I am a "switch", I tend to the submissive side; LOVEloveLOVElove roleplay, sensual foreplay or touch...

No, I cannot host, my life is incredibly complicated...

Physically, I am very affectionate and absolutely crave attention, or even head-scratches or back rubs;

Being of the cancer star-sign, I am definitely a water-baby, love warm pools or jacuzzi-time, with cuddles and snuggling is even better! I really cannot stress it enough, I would put being held, and snuggled, waaaay above any sex, at any time.

Not mad about parties, but like to have a few people around me for quality time.

I'm not looking for once-off, I'm looking for a couple (or two or three lol) to have some good times with...

And if we do meet, I will respect your relationship and will not initiate anything until you're sure that you both want me around; I do not feel comfortable playing with one partner alone.

Otherwise, I'm a pretty relaxed gal as those who know me will confirm and love being spoiled, just like any other woman! There is very little that will shock me in this world.

I hate sleeping alone - something that I'm still not used to. I want to be around people that I can be as snarky, bitchy, or childlike as I wish and still be me.

Ideal perfect evening? Dinner in front of a fire, movie/tv, Lindt choklit balls, and quiet, intelligent conversation. SNUGGLING VERY NB!!!!!!

1) Please do not bother contacting me if you cannot spell properly, I write as a hobby and this irritates me immensely.

2) Yes, I have Multiple sclerosis and sometimes my plans have to change at the last minute because of this. It is out of my control and I do my best to stop it from running my life.

3) I may be small in height, but I have a very low BS-tolerance, and am not interested in one-night-stands. If you come into my life, be aware that I will expect a certain level of morals, standards and etiquette from you. If you already have a high set, awesome; you will have a forever-friend in me, someone who is always willing to talk and listen.

6) I am an awful tease and chat-flirt. Just because I flirt with you in emails/chat, does NOT mean I'm gonna be jumping into your bed anytime soon. This also applies to those who I eventually agree to meet. Just because I'm meeting you for coffee does NOT mean I'm gonna hop in the sack with you. I never mention names, but I might mention what mischief I've gotten up to...

Basically, treat me like you would a large cat (re: panther or jaguar) and you'll be fine :)

(YES, I mean that literally...)

Interests

Adult parties
Erotic writing
Gang bangs
Group sex
Oral sex
Outdoor sex
Role play
S & M
Straight sex
Threesomes
Voyeurism

Seeking

Age: 18 - 100
Distance: 150 km