So ho did the Club Scene go.

I only see this now .. My Bad.

So little late now but let me give you my input.

now i even worked at a club for a while and is busy now with my blog which should be active soon.

Most important thing and the only thing that you guys need to know is COMMUNICATION.

Talk about what both want and what should be expected.

But i can guarantee It won't just happen as easily as that if it wasn't pre arranged example.

Most of the time you don't get it as it would seem.

Go there without expectations and the need to swing to the heavens and back.

Just go and be yourself and have fun.

If the opportunity arises then COMMUNICATION is the key here.

Hope late is better than nothing

Quote by joyrider
Is this the way it should work? Or is this the norm?
We have met a few cpl's so far but it has lead to nothing. Just a met and greet. During the met and greet a person chats about general things like what the other cpl likes and dislike and your likes and dislike and the rules and boundaries which one should not cross. And then the conversation turns to about other cpls which they have met and what went wrong for the other cpl when they met other cpls during the fun part and thereafter. Note the part of thereafter. Which is of great concern for us as a cpl!
We have met more than 3 cpl's that all say the same thing. The married man of the cpl B which they have met then start to worry the other cpls wife A at work. And the man of cpl B then tries to get the married wife of cpl A to have an a fear behind her husband's back and behinds his own wife's back. And it gets to should a point that the cpls part in bad teams as the man of cpl B has broken the trust bond.
Now I want to know the following:
1. Is this the norm how things happen?
2. Do you contact the cpls wife of cpl A and tell her what her hubby is doing behind her back and is she happy with what her husband is doing.
3. Or do you just just fuck the guy up?
Because of what the men are doing we as a cpl is now scared to met other cpls .
Please give advice for in case we do come across such a man.
Joyrider
This is something we did not expect to hear from other cpls!

 Honestly no 3--3--3--3--3--3--3

There is supposed to be trust there from all Parties concerned in the Matter.