New to SA and after being here a few months, I am ready to meet new, local friends.  If these friends happen to turn into fun, play partners - all the better! 

I maybe new to the SA scene, but have dabble in this type of play for a fair few years, so I've learned a few things along the way: 

Respect and honesty are a must. I have no tolerance for a lack of either. Abuse is also not tolerated! 

I'm not looking to meet or play with the whole of SH, just an exceptional single fella, lady and or couple. With the friends I would like to meet and play with, I know what I like and what I'm looking for, so please don't try convince me that you will rock my world. I also don't feel "shame" or "pity" if I decide to decline a playdate offer, so could we leave the guilt trips at the door, please. Having said that, I am a pleaser and so when it comes to my playmates, I am all about making sure it's mutually beneficial. 

As we never really know who we are talking to until we meet in person, I don't sext or play online or do cam stuff.  I don't give out my personal details, but would like to chat over sm or email, until a verifying phone chat, before we meet. A public social is a must and we both decide where we go from there. 

Lastly, I am a confident larger lady, with all the rolls, lumps and bumps that come with that. I am a comfortable 5'3, size 12-14. I recognise that is not everyone's cup of tea, but hey ho. 

I don't play with married or attached partners without the other knowing and I don't cross colour lines.

Have fun and be safe!