Something so sexy about playing for someone you know enjoys watching. 😈 beautiful

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Lol.... You made it possible. You are what so many desire, kind, sensual, orgasmic, funny, gentle..... There aint enough worda in the worlda dictionaries bound together. If men would. Look past the sexual part of tou and discover the real you, they too would understand that here is an angelic angel who has so so much to give. 💐👫

You leave a huge 👣 in a person's life

Awww you silly man. 🤗You made me mushy now. 😘 thank you hun for such sweet words. 💋 your imprint in my heart has been quite big to and just so you know, I can’t walk past fucking tinned snails without thinking of you and smiling. I have no idea why 🤣 fucking snails of all thing 😅

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I know every part of my hands knew what they were doing. Even when i fell asleep they knew where to be and warm and moist

You hands are pretty amazing 😏

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I fully understand and appreciate your response. Reading your comment now in hindsight I do see that there are many areas of concern.

I will be taking this date off the menu and will rectify .

Send me your number and I’ll share the details of a Domme that is offering workshops that delve into all aspects of BDSM relationships. She is brilliant and you will learn how to play in the BDSM world safely for both your sake and your subs. It’s so much more fun when you find a tribe to learn from when you start educating yourself. Especially when you’re starting out.

Thank you for acknowledging your mistakes here and wanting to rectify them. Let me hook you up with the people that will teach you the correct way to play safely. 😽

I would class that as a dangerous ridiculous BDSM attempt with a fake Dom and fucking stupid woman who put herself in a perilous situation hoping for a “50 Shades” moment. Not sure what kind of woman you’re finding but they are fucking idiots. No talk about rules, limits, safety and then restraints and choking. I can’t decided who’s the bigger idiot. You or her. It’s a tough choice. Hmmm 🤔

While as a fantasy story this sounds delicious in reality this is so dangerous for her and stupid of you to attempt it. I have heard to many horror stories about things that have gone wrong for both men and women that have done this sort of thing. From assault to to forced drug use to one unfortunate young woman having her nipple bitten right off.

So I’d call this stupid. Not BDSM, in the kink world, real Doms and Subs have rules and we follow and respect the rules and roles of the other. This is bloody madness. 🙄

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Thank you for that, I was looking for a single guy or a married guy playing with consent to spoil her and then they have a good shag afterwards.

Well now that’s a possibility to FFM 😈😉

I have

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I have a new puppy not really a puppy anymore she is now 11 months old....but boy does she have a personality all her own.

I recently noticed a weird thing about her.... Sometimes when I drop my feet from the bed or if I discard my shoes, even when I get out of the shower drying my feet...she rushes to me and tries to rub herself all over my feet, she then proceeds to lick my toes and then proceeds down the whole foot sole  itself, she does get cross when I try to remove my foot/feet  before she feels she is finished grooming me or untill she has had her fill. ( She follows my feet when I try to move them around) I told my lovey that this little girl seems to have a foot fetish...funnily enough she ignores my loveys feet.
Okay, so you guys will say I have smelly feet and that is why she is doing this....WELL THAT is NOT TRUE..... when I noticed this behavior of the pup, ....I let my lovey smell my feet before showering....and let me tell you guys, even if I do not really have a foot fetish..(well maybe a small one) I do look after my feet, this borders on obsessional behavior on my side really, to having clean soft and well groomed feet and hands and nails. It has to do with... while in my youth, when I over heard staff (not only the nurses but the doctors as well) in a hospital theater making fun of a patient who had very bad rough, cracked heels.  I also never have or had  shoes that are smelly. Just so you guys know...sheesh....

 As far as fetishisms and kinks go, a foot fetish is really classic. It’s common enough that most people have heard of it, yet still nice enough for some, that it’s kinky. 
People  automatically assume you're a *freak* because you are into feet. Feet we must remember is one of those body parts with a massive amount of sensory receptors. Just think reflexology.
  
Giving a *foot job* is a thing to learn..as we can't really manipulate things with our feet and toes the same way we do with our hands. We usually don't have that kind of control over our legs, which causes the movements to be sloppy compared to a hand job.
Foot jobs are awesome, but they're not the only thing you can do. You can worship feet, which includes kissing, licking, massaging them, sucking toes, smelling them (if you're into that and like smelly shoes and feet)  In a BDSM set up,it is really a mind game, by rubbing your feet all over someone`s face is a way of humiliation or saying they are beneath you. Or demanding they kiss your feet and lick your boots/shoes. I am NOT talking about some genital play...like stepping on a guys cock and balls, Although I know some men who LOVES being kicked in their genitals.  Playing footsie in a restaurant is usually considered foreplay or sexy...just to name a few.

If you think about it, what is your first reaction if someone starts sucking your toes/kissing your feet??? Or even just rubs his/her feet in your crotch??

I have to admit as I was reading this I didn’t know if you were referring to a human being (puppy) or a real dog 😂😂 I had quite a chuckle.

I never thought I had a foot kink. I had never had a foot rub or anything else like that and then I went to a kink party a few weeks back and a gentleman massaged my feet while we watched a play and I was sent to heaven. New kink unlocked immediately. I had no idea how sexy a man’s hands could feel on my soft and I’m told beautiful feet. It was magical to say the least and I was shocked at how fast I went from “no this is not for me” to “come suck my toes and nibble my arches” 😈

So many years wasted not knowing because I assumed I would not enjoy it. A shame. I absolutely love foot worship 😏

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@pussinboots1 "Okay talking about toys...who made some nice ICE dildo`s to play with?
Some Ice sounds??"

Ice dildo? 

I know about ice and using it on the outside, does the ice dildo actually go inside and will this not hurt a lady?

It can go Anywhere your imagination allows but it does not last long internally and you are left with a wet spot on the bed but they are fun 😈

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Lol on the topic of pegging, I actually have a strapon packed away, don't even know why I got the thing, but it's so big that it's scary to even think of something like that going there

Did you ever get around to trying it out 😏?

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I am curious to hear what others interpret as "kinky" I have experienced somewhat different viewpoints on this. What one may see as "kinky" can be "normal" activity to another.

To me kinky is anything that is not vanilla. In other words anything that does not fall into the ‘norm’ of mainstream. There was a time Anal was considered kinky by me. Now it’s vanilla 🤣😏 time changes your definition of kinky I suppose 😈

A mentor is not a prerequisite but it certainly helps having someone to help and guide you on your journey. We play in a world where so much could go wrong so quickly and it’s important to know the rules of engagement so having someone or several someone to help you is very important. Also perhaps join a community to inform yourself.

There is no such thing as someone who knows it all in the world of BDSM, we are ever evolving and learning and anyone who says otherwise is bullshitting you.

Play safely and remember information is key. 🔑

I have a friend who has converted a space into a upmarket fully kitted out dungeon and hires it out to elite individuals for plays. She also gives the best spankings and corporal punishments 🥵should that be required. Dm your number and I’ll share her details. This is not a cheap service so if you can’t afford to pay a decent price don’t bother messaging.

Check out Fetlife. There are groups you can join locally where you can put up an advert for a Domme. There are also paid services where you can have an online Domme that gives you JOI (jerk of instructions) and plays with you, which for newbies into the lifestyle can be a far easier way to ease into the role you will play until you find your place in that world. 😉 I know several ladies in this world always looking for new pets to train so message me and I’ll help you 😁

It’s a fun area of BDSM to play in. Very nurturing and can be quite healing. I detest being called “mommy” but I do enjoy the roleplay. Ma’am or MzKyttie suits me much better. 😏

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Hi guys

Do you know or can you recommend a place where a lady can get a sensual massage in the Roodepoort area? I'd love to know of your experiences. Is it worth it?

I have a friend who is doing sensual massage at the moment. Send me your number and I’ll forward it to her.

Still looking?

Pity you’re not in Jozi, I know someone here whose hands are magical 😏

I have no interests in younger men other than to worshipped by them. Aside from that they serve no purpose in my life.

I have a very sexy and gorgeous friend who offering couples massages with double happy endings if you’re willing to pay for her service. 😏 she delightful. Message me your contact details and I’ll forward them to her if you’re interested. 😏

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😂😂😂😂no you dont...

Why thank you kind man 💋

Probably because unless they are a member and have unlimited messages they only have 3 a day and they won’t waste them on someone they deem not a fit for them or not to their taste. They probably save them for those they are genuinely interested in engaging with.

It’s not about you and you’re going to be very disappointed if you expect everyone you message to revert back to you because you find it rude for them not too. Perhaps lower your expectations a little 🤏🏻 to avoid disappointment. 😉

Safe parking yes, as for the rest I don’t know cause my pet settles all that for us. But I suggest you call and ask them. I find them discreet, clean ans neat. It’s not a nexxxus which is exceptional but it decent and clean which I like.

African Sky in Roodepoort allows for daytime play and is clean and neat.

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I would like to be used as a live nude model in a sex-education class for women. They would be allowed to touch and feel.

Oh that’s so sexy 🔥

A shocking amount of “straight” men as actual Bi when I start chatting to them and they admit it to me after awhile. I’m open and easy to talk to so many share their secrets and it’s crazy how many “confess” to being Bi.

I don’t get why they hide it to be honest and I have far more respect for men who are open about it rather than treat it like it’s a big secret 🤐 and shameful. Best of both worlds 😏in my opinion.

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A blind night.

Obviously done with someone I trust totally but I would like a night where I am blindfolded for the duration of the night and gagged so I can’t see or speak and have only my hearing, smell and sense of touch left.

What happens that night would be in the hands of my partner (hence the reason I said someone I trust) who knows my fantasies and desires and will ensure the night is all about me and my pleasure. I want to hand control of my body over to him and let myself go and know I will be safe.

Then just let go and enjoy pure sensation. Tomorrow is another day but for just one night I want to lose control and be animalistic and savage.

The next day, I want every muscle to ache, when I sit down I want to moan softly and feel tender knowing what my body endured, knowing I was well used.

I’m a control freak and don’t trust easily so this is not likely a fantasy I’d ever have but it’s one I enjoy immensely when I pontificate a while. 😏 since fantasies can be just that….i like this one. ☝️

Finally had this and it was wonderful 😻😈

Hippo enclosure at the pta zoo at night during a sleepover camping ⛺️ event for the introduction of White Tigers to SA.

Lion/ elephant/ gorilla/ polar bear enclosures at the JHB zoo. Yea I worked there at the time.

At the Cradlestone Mall cinema and then in the disabled bathroom by McDonalds. Parking lot too.

Bathroom in a busy Spur.

On the balloon ride at Gold Reef City.

At a lion kill in Kruger Park.

Noise, lots of noise. I fucking detest people that are able to orgasm or play in silence. One of the most repulsive things in the world, that silence in passionate moments. Heavy breath, moan, scream, pant like a dog, bark if you have to but do something. I’ll take vocal any day of the week.

Jesus Brian I laughed so hard reading this 🤣😂 brilliantly said and I’m in 💯 agreement with you.

Dicks a dicks a dicks a dick. Frankly once you’ve seen a dozen there are no new surprises. So dick pics don’t even upset me anymore. What pisses me off is the entitlement some men have of demanding access to my private folder or nudes. A lack of manners and rudeness is so off putting and irritates the fuck out of me. 🙄

Had a guy message me yesterday and say “show me a pussy” I replied with “look in the mirror”. Curiously enough he did not message again 😂😏 bad manners gets old quickly.