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I am an Indian lady Looking for fun couples or singles, Love to seduce,and have loads of fun! I am a young lady wanting to explore even more and go to the next level, my hubby is part of my package! .
As much as it is physical - Love is mainly psychological - we find it hard to let go of some things. Especially, when those things are people; people, who were once incredibly important to us.
There are people in our lives, who have had such a tremendous impact on us the individuals who we have become that giving up on them entirely, would mean giving up on a part of ourselves. It is one thing to excommunicate a past lover (another, a parent; a best friend; a sibling) but changing the person they have made us become is not possible. Sure, we could continue to make further changes, fill the cracks, build a new foundation, create new cracks to cover up the old, but the scarring will always be there - no matter what happens from that point forward.
When everything that we become, or have or want or need, is thanks to this one person whom we had to part ways with, realistically letting that person go and forgetting about them is not going to happen! Those cracks will always be there and if they have not been filled perfectly by another, then our mind may very well figure out a way to have them filled by their original creator. A great love experience puts anything that falls short, to shame!
Think of the best slice of pizza that you have ever had, or the best, plump and juicy steak that you have ever bitten into. Now, tell me how disappointed you were, every other time that you have taken a bite of a different pizza or a different steak and it does not live up to that one special memory?
People do not live only in the moment. We live in the past, the future and the present. zero eight one four five eight six two four seven Everything that we take part in, experience or consume is compared to everything similar that we have once experienced, as well as to what we, at one point, hoped that we would experience. It is funny, but generally speaking, Life and Love are riddled with letdowns. Many of them small, such as in the example, mentioned above. Others, however, are much larger letdowns.
When we start to date someone new to fill that crack - we start to pick them apart, comparing them to that one individual we deem to have been the best we ever had. When we broke up with that person, we did so, promising ourselves that we would find better and we deserve the best So, we try and find better or the best! Anything that falls short simply will not do. A huge problem is the fact that our memories do not always match up with the reality of the past we often remember things more colourful than they actually were. This makes falling for someone new extremely difficult. Very few can live up to such unrealistic standards. Sadly, we often do not comprehend what it is that we have lost, until we lose it!
Understanding how much you really love someone can take time. You may fall in love with someone, without fully understanding why it is that you love them or knowing exactly why you should not love them. You may spend hours, months, years together, without fully appreciating what it is that this person means to you or you do know. You may be smart, but understanding exactly what someone adds to your life, while being a part of your life is tricky. You only fully understand the exact importance of an individual, once that person is removed from your life.
When it comes to life, human beings are like little children playing with electronics. They love their gadgets and are fascinated with trying to figure out how everything works. They want to understand how each individual piece makes the entire trinket do whatever it is that it is supposed to do. Unfortunately, what each lever, cable and switch does is not always evident. Sometimes, the only way to figure out how useful something is, is by removing it entirely and seeing what happens. When you lose someone you once loved, you may very well come to realize that life without that person simply does not work the way it is supposed to.
If this is the case, then we cannot blame ourself for wanting this person back it is only natural! When you love someone so deeply that you cannot let go, the world is supposed to find a way of bringing you back together. If Love exists as a tangible substance, which many like myself, seem to believe, then it only seems logical that True Love must prevail. I cannot say that I understand exactly how this works, or whether it is only an illusion, but in my experience, it is exactly what I need to keep believing.. If the things that we spend so much time focusing on, so much time thinking about and fanaticising about, can come to fruition, there has to be a force larger at play than ourselves. Whether the hand of destiny is pushing us in the direction or whether we are almost unconsciously moving towards a goal, without understanding that we are, such Love has a way of cumming back around.
When one love someone so deeply that this person affects our day-to-day decision-making, then it is surely not unthinkable that with each decision we are finding ourself one step closer to the arms of our Soul Mate - our True Love? Regardless of what we each believe or do not believe, when it comes to Love, we just need to have a bit of faith.
With a bit of faith and Love in our hearts, miracles can happen..........I am waiting for one!
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