Update: Covid-19 interrupted play, time to carry on with PPE (Masks & Condoms) and keep it doggy  .

I travel often and this site was recommend to me to meet open minded folk in South Africa, so here goes.

The ButtFuck Challenge started over a few bottles of wine with some swinging friends at the end of 2014 and has the goal 1000 butts and their owners pleasured.

THIS MAYBE A BIT OF A MARMITE MOMENT as anal sex is not for everyone, but you got this far so read the rest. Yes, anal sex it is an acquired pleasure and not to be rushed into.

Bottom line, if it is a pain in the butt, then you are doing it wrong. I guess the ButtFuck Challenge, grew out of a real need to educate folk as to the pleasures of anal. Anal pleasure takes time, trust and an understanding of your partner, so if you an anal newbie this is not going to happen instantly in a carpark.

Women tell me they enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. It's a totally different sensation than regular sex. It's not vaginal, yet it's inside you. In other words, it’s a completely different feeling, which makes it intriguing and I am told more intense. To get to the point of anal entry, will involve plenty of foreplay with your clitoris to really send you into a sexual high and I consider a sex toy vital if a woman is to have orgasms from anal sex.

For men it is more mechanical as stimulation of the prostate can lead to intense ejaculation.

Yes there is a fair amount of preparation along with condoms and a good lube are required to experience the pleasure, so this is not a spur of the moment thing. If you are into anal or want to explore and widen your sexual horizons then drop me a line.