Update: Thank you all for the many responses and messages. Please note that my preference for now is to find a sexy, classy but also very slutty lady to play with or alternatively a couple. Ideally a lady who is well behaving in public but is able to let her inner slut out in a more private environment.

Senior Executive, early 40ties, well build, European, living and working in Johannesburg. 

Looking for discrete play, safety and hygiene key as well as having mutual slutty fun. 

Attracted to sexy classy women or potentially couples who have the darker slutty side and who are open to lots of play.

Given my position discretion is really a must.