Friends with Benefits - I am recently divorced, and need companionship. 
But what you know counts !!

I have a BF , but he is not around all the time !!

If you interested in me , then message me , but I have conditions !! 
ONlY certain race groups !! Please lets not waste each other's time !!

One of the conditions : 
- We do it in a Geusthouse !! Not my Place 
- The other will follow - if we connect !! 
- If you going to emotionally get connected - rather move on !!

a) Cleanliness 
b) Style / class - not wrong side of the railway tracks ( like to be able to properly spell !!) 
c) Confidentiality 
All above not negotiable !!!!!!!!
Jo is here for
Every now and then you have to do something crazy in life....like joining a site like this! Carpe diem and all that jazz ;) 
I'm looking for some fun, nothing less. I enjoy good sex and I enjoy good company. 
I'm open to new things but not the waaaaay out of the ordinary stuff. I'm not full of stories and easy going at the end of the day.

I'd appreciate it if married men didn't contact me :)

Happy searching....may the odds be ever in your favour ;

So sitting here and cannot sleep. Browsing through my msgs. Almost all start with "wanna fuck?"...well yes, that is why I am here. But I am not a drive-thru either. Conversation is a good indication for me whether there is chemistry. Now a tip...look, plenty of you have to practically budget to take chicks out for dinner and at the end of the day they either did not look like their photo or they felt like a free full well they were not going to screw you. So, go to Spur...19 bucks for bottomless coffee, if you both have a coffee then 10 tip is So for you can determine whether there is chemistry and whether she is legit.

You might not get lucky the first time, I mean if you pay 19 bucks for my coffee don't expect to get into my pants on a first meeting, my panties cost more than the coffee.

Make sure it is filter and not chicory...very nota beta.

Anyways....don't start your sentence with "wanna fuck?" Next time you want to introduce yourself...it fills my inbox with generic shit and we won't even make it to Spur!
I respect other people's preferences and i expect the same in return. But some people are so pushy and forward...ive been asked "why would u prefer an old guy" and "im sure i will show u more action than an old man" wow as ifthat would change my preferences. Stop putting down the older guys on here just because u want to score. And have some respect. Thnx
Passionate and erotic Sex IS exhilarating, fascinating and it can lead to a deeper bond between lovers; a powerful way to engage with one another and achieve an intimate and deeply satisfying connection. The sexual bliss it creates can ease the pressures of our daily life!

Sex is NOT just about the physical act; it is also a highly emotional interaction that can keep love alive and a relationship happy and healthy.

But, HOW can we enhance our desire, intensify the passion and elevate sexual energy:

Start foreplay hours before - naughty text messaging, leaving notes around, seductive phone calls or flirting and teasing during the day can heighten tensions and lead to wild and passionate sex in the evening.

Put your head in the right place. No, LOL, I do not mean that physically! Meditate for a few moments beforehand and clear the mind of clutter; let go of all thoughts and set an intention for an authentic, committed, present connection.

Synchronize breathing by lying next to one another face to face. As one deeply inhales, the other exhales so the same air is circulating through each other (be sure to brush your teeth first!) This not only syncs the rhythm between both partners for a higher physical connection; it also strengthens emotional engagement.

Focus only on kissing, as kissing is all too often traded in, due to other parts of the body taking priority. Forget touching or even thinking about any other body parts, until things become SO heated that it is difficult to keep control. IT IS ALL IN THE KISS!!!

Touch sensitive nerves. The inner thigh has one of the most explosive nerves in the body. Add a little pressure to it by touching, tracing or kissing it to tease and then. move seven nine two four eight seven nine two one Masturbation reminds our body of how it likes to be touched and it helps to stay tuned with what feels good. It also make it easier to explain to a partner what you desire. Try masturbating alone, or together, showing one another alternative ways to enhance pleasure.

Create a luxurious feel to the bedroom by investing in sheets that are high quality linen and that feel smooth and sensual NOT SATIN!!! Ensure pillows are plentiful, as they can make great props and supports for the body during Sex. Decorate your room in colours to create a seductive and passionate setting. Include candles, mirrors and things that make you happy; this includes music.

We can all take more care in dressing and undress passionately in the bedroom. Choosing sexy underwear that feels and looks good even for a man - will add an edge of naughtiness to making love. If adventurous, dress up in a role play outfits and head into fantasy land or wear an outfit that flatters and enhances your shape. Take time undressing, or passionately unpeel clothes from one another. Keep your mind only on the other person - how they look, how they feel, how they smell and especially, how much thought is going into the seduction. Allow it to add to the pleasure of the foreplay by paying attention to every detail.

Take dessert to bed. Any tasty, not too sticky treats will add pleasure to oral seduction. Drip or slowly smooth onto parts of the body then lick, suck or kiss it off. One word..CHOCOLATE!