About us: Curious first timers seeking lady for him.... not for her. Looking for a long term relationship on a regular basis. She will assist in the search but does not know if she will participate further than that, although she wil be there..... perhaps making coffee in the next room hehehehehe. Thus we are very much into reverse cuckolding = the male has sex with other females with my (female) permission LOL.

SHE:

I believe that men are wayyyyyy different than women. That boys will be boys and that a man needs more than one sex partner. It’s all about variety !!! I also know that there are a lot of women out there that also need this. We have an awesome sexlife. Quantity and quality wise. So we aint looking to spice it up in any way. We are here to find HIM ‘variety’. Someone that we can connect with, someone that we can meet on a regular basis. Me? I’m not getting actively involved. To be honest….. I don’t really know what my involvement will be once we’ve found the person we ‘re looking for….. YES, we are doing it together. I could be in the same room or even in the next room. NO, I am not doing this to get turned on by watching him. I have been asked that by a few members.

HIM:

She suggested I just write: “it WAS her idea….”. I guess I just did, but it really was. A few days ago I came so close to getting into ‘type’ debate. I was going to go into the looks versus attitude argument. Perhaps luckily for me I let it go. To the guys out there that really are the one woman kinda guys-I tip my hat to you. Way back when, or just the other day, depending on your gender -I was the “bad boy”. Now you could ask yourself if what she’s doing is because of who I am or what I was or …who or what I am now..I’ll let you come up with a few questions of your own. NO matter the question-she has reason for it. Like she says, we’re great together and that’s not just because the sex is AWesome. There are enough reasons to perhaps bore you to distraction. There are a few things on my mind but this I think is not the place for them. I think that’s between me and her. There are things we talk about still. Not regularly, but that’s what we do. I think she knows me better than most so I think there are things that I can say to her that she’ll understand because she knows where I’m coming from. Why did I agree I just heard someone think…. Perhaps again I should let you draw your own conclusions. To be honest with you I haven’t given it a whole lot of thought till she made me read her story