Tips For Improved Success Rates

1. Understand that these pages were not meant for facilitating "instant hook-ups" (although they are mostly being used that way these days). 2. Accept that there will always be a time delay between your posting the message, and when it appears on the page, as it has to first be approved by a moderator, and moderators only check to see what needs approval from time to time. 3. First select the correct Province ("State") appropriate to your post (some forget this, and their posts all end up under Eastern Cape by default!) 4. If you expect / want to be contacted, include your Profile Name in your post. Do NOT include personal contact details (BBM pins, email address, cell numbers - not even in "code"!) in your post, as these will be deleted by the mods. 5. You have a far higher chance of getting some response if you do include your Profile Name. Interested parties can then send you a message directly. 6. If you wish to be identified at a dogging site, by all means identify yourself/s by car type, clothing, the sign you will use (eg red cloth on mirror, high-heels on dashboard), etc., but it is not appropriate to identify other folks and describe them. 7. If offering to meet / watch / perform, it is helpful if you indicate in your post if you are m/f/cpl. Saves responders first having to ask. 8. The more specific you are in your post with what you are offering / wanting, the more likely you are to get a response. 9. If your offer / request is date / time specific, include the date / time in your post. "Here now" is not at all useful, as there is no way to know when it was posted. There could be hours of delay before approval... 10. In my view, it is better to use "proper" language when posting, rather than modern "geek speak" where words are so abbreviated they sometimes become unrecognisable! Also including the pronouns I / we / us in the post helps to make it more clear what is being offered / requested. 11. Hope this helps!! Enjoy the dogging!! Be safe in all you do!! - redbruce