where r all the bi ladies???

28 Sep 2012

hi r new2swinging or let me rather say tho my profile says no males or couples those r actually the only people who inbox few bi ladies i hv msgd hasnt where does this leave us as a couple interested in being with ladies only?should we just call it quits and deactivate our account on this site?was really lookin forward 2our first 3sum bt looks like it wont b all ears any advice any1???

28 Sep 2012

Ladies who play alone are called Unicorns for a reason! They are a very rare find! All the best in your hunt!

29 Sep 2012

There is a possible solution to your request. Contact Marco and Zophia at the club and let them introduce you through the club or a party to possible contacts. Then you will experience it first hand and can make an easy choice. Its not so easy making friends here on the site alone. When you meet one to one, its a total different ball game/chemistry. Good luck... they are out there... and you will find the right connections, dont give up yet.

29 Sep 2012

thanx guys4d

2 Oct 2012

We been there as well. But we gave up a long time ago. In our opinion are 85% from the ladys, what we are contacted, are fakes. As usual there comes no reply back, even when we ask to be honest and that they please reply with a "No Thanks". But you never know? Maybe one day you will find what you are looking for.

2 Oct 2012

Thanx newbie.i kinda had that feeling that thered b sum fake.i do hope we find wot we r lookin4and honesty surely is most important.

12 Aug 2013

Hi guys. I am new to this site but not new to the lifestyle. As a couple we have met up with numerous singles. Unfortunately only met one single lady in the past 5 years or so and we never even got to play. I don't want to give you bad news but if you are looking for a single lady to play with (either bi or straight) then your chances are better in a night club than on a web site like this. A single male has about a 35% chance to hook up with a single lady but when you are looking for a single lady to join a couple your chances goes down to under 5%. It is not that they are not there. It is just that there are so few reel lady's out there and so many people looking for them that they have the monopoly. I would go as far as to say maybe as few as 1 for every 2000. Your best chances are going to be if you make a few friend wit couples and join them at swingers clubs. That way you will have company when you go to the club and they may introduce you to someone that may know someone who can introduce you to the right reel girl. All the best of luck.

13 Aug 2013

Look the truth is that - unfortunately - there is a MASSIVE contingent of single males on the site who think this place is where you find: * easy slutty shags * a quick fuck * women who WANT to be used and abused The end result is that the swinger lifestyle gets a really bad name, with couples and single girls. These 'fake-swinger' singles who think that this is a simple hook up site, are rude, and horrifically disrespectful to all the women who are present on the site, single and part of a couple (actually there are a lot of people who behave abominably here) . Because the single girls who are interested in swinging, are treated with such horrific levels of disrespect and degradation, they very soon disappear from the site, eliminating all chance of the real swingers, who are IN the LIFESTYLE and KNOW THE RULES, ever connecting with them and promptly putting off all these single girls, who otherwise would have LOVED to partake regularly in the lifestyle, permanently. Personally I think that while a FREE service is super useful - you're only likely to find REAL single female swingers on paid membership sites which offer members mechanisms to actually effectively block unwanted attention. If the facilities of a site REALLY allow a member to restrict access that other members have to contact them, that is where you will find the real female single swingers - where they feel empowered and equipped - this kind of site literally sets them up as targets for abuse. Even the current "after-the-abuse" blocking doesn't seem to work - I tried it the other day and still I receive mails from the "blocked" people so - where there is no system to allow a girl to block access from "all single male profiles" or similar options - they just don't stick around. I also think there should be an age restriction - truthfully the number of individuals under the age of 25 who are emotionally mature enough to participate in this lifestyle in a healthy and mature fashion is extremely small. I think 18 as a 'acceptable age' is criminal, but that just my personal counselling and coaching years of experience and opinion speaking... so what do I know? Additionally I think an acceptable use policy is not enough, and that if a site is free, the people who want to run a site like this, have a responsibility to the community that is its target, to ensure that their site both protects and respects the community it serves. More than simple email address should be required to verify you are real person, and further to this only once MEANINGFUL verification is done, should a member be able to directly contact any other member. THAT should be the exchange - either you PAY for the service or you let the service know EXACTLY who you are ACTUALLY. The truth is - if your real identify is so top secret that you can't trust the site owners with it - chances are - you probably should not be here at all in the first place - you are underage, cheating or using the site for nefarious purposes. Some of the dating sites have figured out the extreme importance of protecting it's members, so you keep them as members, and ALL communication is restricted, AND until a "indication of interest" is accepted by the receiver (similar to a wink) the interested party cannot contact the person directly in message form, nor can they express interest more than once! smile

- SH should SERIOUSLY consider adding this kind of feature to the single female profiles! We might actually keep some members in this category then! Ok - that's my rant for the day - hope you all enjoyed it... Love long and swing everyday! Lee :haha:

13 Aug 2013

LeeEC you have my full support on this one and time arrived that Admin take serious note on whats been said in the forums of this site.