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Many couples that are new to swinging are looking for a Single (Bi / straight) girl first off.
Most single girls are looking for boys (one or more in a session).
Some are looking for another girl but seldom for a couple, therefore an Unicorn as Pussinboots1 said.
Why look for a single girl?
Is it because the guy in the couple isn't willing to share his girl with another guy?
Or because they believe it is an easier way to get into things?
Contrary to belief among new couples, Unicorns provide their own complications.
To us, swinging is about learning and enjoying to share, so we recommend looking for a patient couple to help you get going.
Finding a couple that is patient, with a couple that is new to swinging, is a challenge in it self.
As friendships developed, a lady from a couple is more likely to perform as a Unicorn with trusted friends.
Hopefully with her partners consent.
Variety of interaction is the foundation of swinging but Unicorns are really only half the fun.
Quote by Nuuskierigepaar
Hi guys
Most of the messages I received are from couples and got me wondering...what is the chances of getting a reply from bi-females or actually meeting up with one? Is my only hope in finding one for my wife the one in my imagination?
Well if you're willing to be flexible and honest too, and take a bit of a back seat initially, there are other couples looking for the same thing (where the male partner isn't into more than watching), which could mean a meeting of the girls, for the men's viewing pleasure. .. but I suspect a first timer would have to be brave to try an arrangement like this ...
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Well if you're willing to be flexible and honest too, and take a bit of a back seat initially, there are other couples looking for the same thing (where the male partner isn't into more than watching), which could mean a meeting of the girls, for the men's viewing pleasure. .. but I suspect a first timer would have to be brave to try an arrangement like this ...
We found girl play to be the best ice breaker for new couples and most girls aren't that hard to convince.
Even if straight play is preferred at the end of the day.
It is very erotic to peep into a realm that us men cannot really be part of.
This also shows if the boys know how to behave and be patient.
Normally it is also an easier way to learn how to share something mama taught you not to.
For us it was much easier than jumping in the deep end, like many experienced couples want you to.
Forum Virgin
I am a bi lady who would like to join a couple
Ek is een van daai alleen bi swingers en ons is oorversigtig vir die volgende redes:
1) Omdat ek dit alleen doen kan ek maklik in die moeilikheid kom met geen man om my te beskerm nie
2) Ek is bang my man vind uit en ek is gelukkig getroud
3) Ek wil nie meer cam nie want n lover het my omgepraat om te cam met sy vriend. Dit was n setup want die vriend het n hele kamer vol ouens gehad waarvan een my vriendin se seun was. Ek dink nie hy het haar vertel nie want sy sou vir my gese het - hoop ek.
4) Ook bang vir die ander vrou dat sy jaloers word met slegte gevolge.
5) Baie moeilik om te verduidelik waar ek gaan.
Ek het uit meer as 100 uitnodigings nog net 2 aanvaar wat darem goed afgeloop het. Sien nog een van die couples nou en dan wanneer ek op vakansie is. Ek wil eers presies weet wie die ander couple is en mense baie versigtig om oop te maak en ek verstaan dit want ek is dieselfde.
Sexlightened
Kan dit verstaan Susan 285.
Dis net jammer dat daar soveel mense is wat sulke situasies uitbuit en dan al die onnodige problem veroorsaak. Wonder altyd wat se bevrediging hulle daaruit put?
