What exactly are Ladys Rules

I see this phrase very often together with "No means No". No the latter is, if you will pardon my saying so, quite unambiguous, however, I have yet to find a definitive discussion on Lady's rules. To me, being new and all, it appears that it means whatever any particular lady wants it to mean in any particular circumstance, which makes it a total mine field for single men. Does it mean that a man is not, under any circumstances, approach a lady, unless she invites him to? If so, then how does a mean show his appreciation and his intentions? Do you just sit there at the club, feeling sorry for yourself, until some woman approaches you? I really would like to know...

What are LADYS' RULES, please.

No respones? Does that mean that nobody knows?

I feel the need to respond to this for some absurd reason. So yes. I wouldn't approach ladies or couples at a club without getting some indication that they are interested. Reason being...... Some clubs have hundreds of single men. If every second man who was interested approached us its safe to say we wouldn't be going back there again. That being said, it's also safe to assume that everyone is aware of your intentions at a swinging club so you don't need to worry too much about that.

To take a step back to the original question. What are ladies rules...... What that essentially means is that ladies control the ebb and flow of the situation, nothing happens unless they are comfortable and secure in what is happening.

Ii am with CheapandEasy on this. The initial rules are set out on the profile and advert ie, if you are a single guy who responds to an add asking for couples only. Expect to get shot down in flames. Once a meeting has been arranged I believe the "ladies rule" come into effect.