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11 Jan 2014

I've read the words "the lifestyle" many a times in e-mails since joining a few days ago. By no means am I a noob to sexual deviancy, but I am curious what I should know and expect.. What is "The Lifestyle"? Cheers :twisted:

11 Jan 2014

Hmmm, I should've read the "Guide to Swinging". Sorry mods!

11 Jan 2014

Did it help?

12 Jan 2014

Hi LeeEC, no. The Guide to Swinging led to , but once there I couldn't access any of their pages. It's all good though, a Google search and some reading answered all my questions. smile

13 Jan 2014

If you have the time, a decent amount of reading in our own "Anything Goes" forum should answer most of your questions. Plus just posting your question as a new topic will be very profitable. People are friendly and willing to help, mostly, we try to slap the idiots periodically to keep them in line.

14 Jan 2014

Quote by LeeEC
If you have the time, a decent amount of reading in our own "Anything Goes" forum should answer most of your questions. Plus just posting your question as a new topic will be very profitable. People are friendly and willing to help, mostly, we try to slap the idiots periodically to keep them in line.

And what lovely slaps they are . . .. wink

One thing South Africans (or at least people in SA) should always try to keep in mind, is that most of the information available on-line these days, has been compiled with American and/or European research. Now whether we like it or not, people who live in Africa have a different view on life in general. (simply take interracial encounters as an example)
Even the information you find here on SH forums should be processed as suggestions only, and not necessarily the simple straight forward answer to any question you may have. (yes, I know most people will be saying "ummm Duh, SDMR") . . . . (but, take a moment to think about it))))))