Private meet or Club

HI all,

This is more a question from us than any solution. We use to go to a club (Kiwi) for a while and met some good friends and has a few fun encounters.

The "problem" was it was  a club. loud music in the front with lots of dancing ect. but not really a place to have a chat. The back is non smoking (we understand it and respect it) and more often than not has more than a few single guys hanging about just watching. The one time my wife and I hocked up with this young guy, we were in a room and the next I see the door is open and about 5 guys are watching us. FOR F sakes. Needles to say we started to stop going until we just never went back.

Now.. how do we meet a couple or the elusive unicorn. And where do we start.. I know this site is a forum to do that but just coming on here you get the big clicks we saw when we were clubing. you get treated as an idiot if you can keep up with the converstion in the chat. (And the wife hates the chat)

So any advice would be appreciated.

Just my 5 c worth

Mav of Mav&Gab   

I think it's a difficult one ya the club can get much at times and the single guys can get creepy but at least you know the people are real and you meet face to face 

The site yes its good but too any fakes and can be risky business but I cannot lie all our unicorns have come off the site so it is a difficult one I think you have to do both 

Thank you. I will have to set up my chat at home so the wife can join in some night and see who is avalible to chat with us 

I usually go to club Rome and they have a area outside for chatting. I am sorry to hear about the single males making my situation bad but club Rome is strict about that. Good luck 

Sorry we disagree about the club Rome part, we had the creepiest guy follow us around the whole night wanking, not just watching, at every chance he got and no one did a thing. I approached him and said we not keen at all, I went to the bathroom and he tried to move in soo quickly on my wife, I had to hold everything back from my side as I was polite and the wanker still tried. My wife was creeped out and we couldn't relax so we left and have never been back. 

We also used to go to Kiwiklub..we can arrange to meet for drinks somehwer

As a former owner of a swinger club

My advice is to meet in a public place.

And if you want to play. Do it in a safe discreet venue.