Off To Our 1st Club Experience

We will be heading off to a club, for the 1st time today. We are total newbies to both the LS and obviously the club scene, any advice?

So ho did the Club Scene go.

I only see this now .. My Bad.

So little late now but let me give you my input.

now i even worked at a club for a while and is busy now with my blog which should be active soon.

Most important thing and the only thing that you guys need to know is COMMUNICATION.

Talk about what both want and what should be expected.

But i can guarantee It won't just happen as easily as that if it wasn't pre arranged example.

Most of the time you don't get it as it would seem.

Go there without expectations and the need to swing to the heavens and back.

Just go and be yourself and have fun.

If the opportunity arises then COMMUNICATION is the key here.

Hope late is better than nothing

Thank you for the reply! Actually it didn't go to badly at all. Sure nothing happened, for what we were to assume was a host of factors, not playing in our favor, I.e. weather, COVID the recent unrest etc., but we still ended up having a great evening.

There was probably only about 30 or so people at the club, but tbh we actually preferred it that way, less overwhelming, especially for our 1st outing, the smaller crowd definitely took alot of the pressure off of us.

Arriving at the club, it did not take to long before we were welcomed by other couples, which was really great, especially for us who did not know what to expect. The host and hostess were fantastic, which again made matters easier and we felt at home almost immediately. We met up with another couple who has been in the lifestyle for quite sometime, who took the time to give us the full breakdown of do's and don'ts, can and cant's while playing, which was a tremendous help to neophytes. 

All and all, we had a fantastic time and will most definitely pop around again......... however only when it's warmer of course 😁