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No single guys... FFS!

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Getting really irritated when looking a profile and then see this line: no single guys! Aaaaahhhhhh! They should put an option in the search to filter out profiles of people who don't want single guys. What do you guys think?
Sorry but there is filters you can put on that you not so dissapointed, Every one has his choice and its a swinging side not 'n porn site for single guys
Obviously everyone has the right to make that choice. But what's a single guy to do every time he views a profile that interests him, only to find that that person or couple has no interest in single guys. And there is no way to filter profiles based on wether they're interested in single guys or not. My point was that it would help guys like us find someone. And what's the point you're trying to make about the pornsite thing. You don't know my intentions!
Actually there IS a way to filter, when you search. You ask it to bring up profiles that have "single guys" in their " looking for"options. But it seems that, almost as a rule people (single guys) use the "gallery" to find profiles to look at instead of the "browse" function, which allows searching based on the actual profile information. If youre going to do that, then you will be missing out on a huge number of profiles, but you also won't be able to filter out the ones that aren't interested in you. So, if you user the RIGHT mechanism, designed to help you find profiles, you can find people, who not only are within a decent distance, but also are interested in single guys like yourself.
Quote by LeeEC
Actually there IS a way to filter, when you search.
You ask it to bring up profiles that have "single guys" in their " looking for"options. But it seems that, almost as a rule people (single guys) use the "gallery" to find profiles to look at instead of the "browse" function, which allows searching based on the actual profile information.
If youre going to do that, then you will be missing out on a huge number of profiles, but you also won't be able to filter out the ones that aren't interested in you.
So, if you user the RIGHT mechanism, designed to help you find profiles, you can find people, who not only are within a decent distance, but also are interested in single guys like yourself.

I agree this is a better approach.
The "no single men" option is a good suggestion, because couples also mark the "straight man" option but still want 'No single guys" in their Ads and About sections. So, if you want to find the couples that are really looking for single men it can be a very practical option to distinguish between specific needs for the over populated species - the single man!
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.......almost as a rule people (single guys) use the "gallery" to find profiles to look at instead of the "browse" function,.....

rotflmao
I must confess I do trawl the Gallery section (alot!) BUT only to search for PIB's piccies! redface
If you should find a profile whose 'ticks' tell you they are interested in "straight male" But their write up says "no single males" Please let a mod know and we will edit the profile and mail them accordingly, so that they don't come up in your searches.
Quote by LeeEC
Actually there IS a way to filter, when you search.
You ask it to bring up profiles that have "single guys" in their " looking for"options. But it seems that, almost as a rule people (single guys) use the "gallery" to find profiles to look at instead of the "browse" function, which allows searching based on the actual profile information.
If youre going to do that, then you will be missing out on a huge number of profiles, but you also won't be able to filter out the ones that aren't interested in you.
So, if you user the RIGHT mechanism, designed to help you find profiles, you can find people, who not only are within a decent distance, but also are interested in single guys like yourself.
I don't see that option... Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. I do browse the gallery, but when I'm looking for a profile with specific requirements I use the search function. My looking for has 3 categories with their options, none of which are single guys.
You know the gallery is FOR trawling pictures - but it is not for finding matches that suit your requirements. But if you are looking for people to actually meet, not using the browse search filter to make sure that the profiles you are looking at are actually a match for you (assuming you know it exists), and instead randomly looking at pictures in the gallery, then getting upset when they don't match your requirements, well that's just a little dof..
Quote by LeeEC
If you should find a profile whose 'ticks' tell you they are interested in "straight male"
But their write up says "no single males"
Please let a mod know and we will edit the profile and mail them accordingly, so that they don't come up in your searches.
OK cool. Thanks
Just pm me with a list of profile names ;)
Your profile must be carefully filled in or it will come back to bite you All the straight men have a give away on thier profile that says bi and then thier are those horny males that tick all the blocks !!! that is just wishfull thinking, nobody can be into everything, be selective, better chance of a hit
Quote by Gerrie2012
Actually there IS a way to filter, when you search.
You ask it to bring up profiles that have "single guys" in their " looking for"options. But it seems that, almost as a rule people (single guys) use the "gallery" to find profiles to look at instead of the "browse" function, which allows searching based on the actual profile information.
If youre going to do that, then you will be missing out on a huge number of profiles, but you also won't be able to filter out the ones that aren't interested in you.
So, if you user the RIGHT mechanism, designed to help you find profiles, you can find people, who not only are within a decent distance, but also are interested in single guys like yourself.

I agree this is a better approach.
The "no single men" option is a good suggestion, because couples also mark the "straight man" option but still want 'No single guys" in their Ads and About sections. So, if you want to find the couples that are really looking for single men it can be a very practical option to distinguish between specific needs for the over populated species - the single man!
amen Gerrie. that is 1 thing that mmm waters down my something hehe. that is a big problem cause they do state they looking for a str8 cpl and a str8 male so what does that leave you to believe they are looking for cpls and singles. now i first have to go and open up their add to see what they are looking for.
i understand this is a swinger site and everybody has its right to choose what they want and i would not want it any other way. lets get rid of the time waisters
this is not a porn site but a swinging site. for those looking to watch porn ( pics and vids for free REMOVE BY ADMIN)
happy swinging
On people click straight single men, when stil a mod and asking profile holder about this there answer was yes the men in the couple must be straight not thinking that actual said they looking for straight men. But stil think if you want to contact a couple read there ads and when you contact them give them as much info of yourself as you can. At the end of the day its how you sell yourself
there are ads in the personals looking for single guys , ladies and couples looking for single guys.
If you start your search in the gallery then you are just interested in pictures not swinging partners Was browsing yesterday and saw a number of profiles with NO SINGLE MEN in capitals then at the bottom at the quick mail a number of messages, very crude, like wanna fuck to night, or advertising thier cocks, all single men obviously with limited inteligence. This is the reason couples are aginst single men. Neanthertals
It is true but not all single men are like that.
But just pointing out a fact There are a lot of very nice single guys and married men playing alone that is worth meeting, just seem that a lot of young guys have discovered the site and thought they had landed up in heavan Eventually if they stick around they will grow up, start treading the forae and learn, but only when they stop perving the pictures
you can't really blame the small-brained cretins... someone did put the lable "Heaven" on the freakin place! lol :lol:
... that single male is not the same thing as "Straight male" as I pointed out in another thread. So perhaps a note to Admin on the "site help" regarding making the options more clear?