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new and married but want to play alone

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Hi Im Lester 27y old white straight male tall and 97kg Im looking to meet new ppl to play with pvt as im married and dont want my wife to know about me being on here Hope to chat soon
Lester, then you should find a site called CheatersHeaven. We are here to meet up with other same minded couples or people who are into swinging. See the guidelines which may help you to understand more about this lifestyle.
Fully agree
Quote by lexmar005
Hi Im Lester 27y old white straight male tall and 97kg
Im looking to meet new ppl to play with pvt as im married and dont want my wife to know about me being on here
Hope to chat soon

While it's a "good" thing that you are being open and up front about being married and you being here alone, this is not the site for what you are looking for.
if you are newly married and already sniffing around it doesn't bode well for the future, each to his own and every story has two sides, but still
mmm some one is looking forsmackbottom Joyrider

I don't see a problem with that if your wife lost interest in the bedroom why not look elsewhere. What is the difference if you cheat with consent or without it, in your makers eyes it is all a sin. Besides if you married at least you should not have a STD some single guys play all over its just my opinion

Hi there. I dont meen to be rude but i feel all you guys that taking a dim look on Lester are hypocrits . Let me tell you that if a married woman came online and asked to play alone then you guys would jump on her like a pack of wolves on a sheep. Yes its a swinging site but then why do u guys look for males and threesomes. So before you judge ....think of what and how the person playing alone consequences are.

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Hi there. I dont meen to be rude but i feel all you guys that taking a dim look on Lester are hypocrits . Let me tell you that if a married woman came online and asked to play alone then you guys would jump on her like a pack of wolves on a sheep. Yes its a swinging site but then why do u guys look for males and threesomes. So before you judge ....think of what and how the person playing alone consequences are.

You deserve a drink for this post Pleasure1....I could not have said it better

Quote by pleasure1
Hi there. I dont meen to be rude but i feel all you guys that taking a dim look on Lester are hypocrits . Let me tell you that if a married woman came online and asked to play alone then you guys would jump on her like a pack of wolves on a sheep. Yes its a swinging site but then why do u guys look for males and threesomes. So before you judge ....think of what and how the person playing alone consequences are.

Except that that isn't actually true.  Most people here have the same view regardless of the gender of the person - a cheater  is a cheater, as far as they are concerned.  Not to worry ... there are plenty of people who don't feel that way - so you should still get a bit of fun if you have some manners and skills and charm smile  

Except that it actually is true. A female wanting to play alone without consent is always welcome anywhere anytime, no questions asked. Ay married man is the scum of the earth even if he has consent.  To settle this lets do a survey. ...

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Except that it actually is true. A female wanting to play alone without consent is always welcome anywhere anytime, no questions asked. Ay married man is the scum of the earth even if he has consent.  To settle this lets do a survey. ...

  I fully agree with you on this one!!! If a married lady cheated it okay but when a man plays alone he is a pig!!!