Loving couple still new to the lifestyle and looking to explore interests

What would the experienced oldies say is the best way to go while we still look for the right person or couple to explore our fantasies.?

Keep trying and testing....

I'm probably going to get crucified for this comment but...... I don't care :taz:

If you have been on this site for 7 years and you're still looking for the right person, then it's probably best to re-evaluate if you should even be in this lifestyle? 

I might be wrong but swinging is about sex not a second or third life partner. Take the plunge already. Pleasure comes in all shapes and sizes :bounce:

Hey sexysam, firstly sorry for only seeing your comment 3 months after posting it... not sure how we missed that... 

You are a 100% correct... being in the lifestyle for 7 years.. no luck... surely something is wrong... Although we haven't been in the life for 7 years...YES the profile was created 7 years ago one evening when we first discussed and showed our interest but then life happened and also looking back today, were we not ready to explore the lifestyle... It is only the last year that we have been active exploring the lifestyle online chatting to other couples and funny enough since asking that question, have we had our first play... 

Anyway just wanted to clarify that so that you understand, but thanks for being honest!