Some background to my question... I am a 30 year old female and my husband is 36... We are just as in love as what we was the day we met although I am not as sexual as what he is due to things that happened in the past... One of his biggest fantasies is to have a threesome... I want to give him the opportunity to have one and am considering arranging one for him because he shouldn't be punished because of my lower sexual cravings... My question:
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Warming the Bed
Go for it. Nothing wrong. My wife loves organising fmf for me and I love arranging MFM for her. At the end of the day, he loves you and the act of sex is not emotional, just physical. You are a good lady and have a soft heart and very caring. Mwah Good on you.
Just a word of advice, if the 3some is for hubby, then fut a pic of him on the site. lol
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Go for it. Nothing wrong. My wife loves organising fmf for me and I love arranging MFM for her. At the end of the day, he loves you and the act of sex is not emotional, just physical. You are a good lady and have a soft heart and very caring. Mwah Good on you. Just a word of advice, if the 3some is for hubby, then fut a pic of him on the site. lol
this is the right way to go about it,it all about fun in the end not falling in love
Master of Sex
Due to this being an old post I hope this has already been decided but in my opinion for those having the same "dilemma".
I would say that you are a good wife, however old fashioned that sounds, to make your hubbies needs a "priority". if a woman can't satisfy her partner it takes a strong woman to admit that and to rectify it. ^5 to you I say. However why don't you arrange it and still stay, You might be surprised, it could be a little helpful when trying to increase your own sex drive and therefore really making it special for hubby and yourself. Just watch even if you don't feel like participating. who knows you might want to eventually.
That is my opinion, but do what makes you feel comfy, and talk about it with honesty and love. Remember! even though, for the parties you invite it is just sex, between you and hubby it is way more special.
Good luck if you are still deciding. otherwise without kissing and telling let us know what decision you made or make. could be interesting.
Hey, it is very considerate of you not to hold back and atleast give him his hearts desires, you married him becuase you love him. Bear in mind that this will be consensual and in a comfortable area. Be strong we all support you. You can be the woman that you are really meant to be with full confidence to overcome everything that life throws at you.
