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Warming the Bed
It's the old, old rule of swinging. Communication.
All or most swinging couples got into the lifestyle in different ways and each has a story to tell of how it all began. Mostly by suggestion by one or other partner. At least you are communicating with her. Your approach however, may have been a little too much to the point. Maybe you should subtly ask her if she has had any fantasies about experimenting with a bi woman. Discuss fantasies, likes and dislikes. You realise your wish.
End of the day, and you are having some nightcaps, both feeling mellow, then just start chatting about your and her fantasies
Unless of course she is absolutely against this
Most women are apposed because they feel you want this to get into other woman and it takes some convincing that you will still feel the same about her after the fact
Make sure you know the reasons you are wanting this
Quote by Luv2wank
Did almost exactly that last night Voyer1105 and made some progress, this is going to take a while but I have ascertained that the subject is not totally off limits, so all is good
Same here! It's going to take a while.
If you scan (again!
) the Forum, this subject comes up regularly - I also followed same on other fora. The same answer and advice as above pops up all the time: Be sure you really want it (sharing yourselves with others)/Jealousy issue/Trust issue/lots of communication!When I study these answers I realise that becoming a swinger is a self help marriage counseling session!! :lol: :lol:
