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Quote by Ordinary_Sexual
Hi, yes you do..I am white & bi...unfortunately we're in different cities
But "single" women are scarce as there are mostly couples & single men.
I beg to differ. Single women are not scarce at all... Over 400 in my area alone registered here. They just don't answer mails, or they go quiet after contact, or don't pitch up for meets, etc. The most common is ignoring messages. The truth is that most here are just "fantasising". Sorry for the bluntness but they just waste server space.
I have been here for years and I have contacted over 150 single female profiles and guess what? Not one single serious lady even interested in going out never mind it ending in play time. I want a lady for her not necessarily a full threesome with me involved, and still not a single bite.
I still take my girl to "couples massages" and rather pay.
Quote by Stamina
Hi, yes you do..I am white & bi...unfortunately we're in different cities
But "single" women are scarce as there are mostly couples & single men.
I beg to differ. Single women are not scarce at all... Over 400 in my area alone registered here. They just don't answer mails, or they go quiet after contact, or don't pitch up for meets, etc. The most common is ignoring messages. The truth is that most here are just "fantasising". Sorry for the bluntness but they just waste server space.
I have been here for years and I have contacted over 150 single female profiles and guess what? Not one single serious lady even interested in going out never mind it ending in play time. I want a lady for her not necessarily a full threesome with me involved, and still not a single bite.
I still take my girl to "couples massages" and rather pay.
Well said Stamina - why do they put themselves on a site like this or any other site for that matter if they have no intention of following through. Hubby would love to do a FFM and well at this time it looks like it will remain a fantasy.
Warming the Bed
Ai tog...we are meeting a girl in a weeks time. We were lucky to catch her in time. She deleted her profile two days later due to the disgusting messages and approaches of people on the site. Just be nice to them, messages like "do you wanna f%&k" does not do well with women.
Sex God
So it would appear as if the illusive single lady for that FFM is a rare find . . . . .
I was thinking, every one seemingly wants to find a lady that is into other ladies. Yet so often when you read a profile, the couple says "Hubby not bi in any way" . . . . . . they still want another male to join them in the sack, but zero contact between men.
Maybe, just maybe, there are more single ladies out there who are open to the FFM idea, but don't respond becuse the searching couple wants someone who is going to be more involved with wifey . . . . . that would give me the impression of "I am going to be on display" . . . . . . and when we remember how often other contributors say that a lot of women have self conscious issues . . . well now!
Orgasminator
At the last meet and greet in Cape Town, there we at least nine single ladies that I recall off the top of my head.
Mailing other users and placing adverts is the least productive way of meeting people on the site. Single ladies are bombarded by random mail, mostly crude. In addition 90% of couples, most other single ladies and ever single guy on site is looking to meet a unicorn, The odds against been the chosen are few.
In our experience on the site, we have found most people and especially the ladies want to get to know someone before meeting and that's why the chatroom works. I realise that its not always interesting and some find the pool boring, but people see you around, get to know you and through whispers, if done properly and over time meetings do happen.
Most ladies are attracted by the mind, mental stimulation switches them on, this can not be achieved through a few mails, it requires interaction over time and like it or not the chatroom is the only forum on the site that provided this.
When it comes to ffm, the focus is on the ladies, the male plays a secondary role and as such its the ladies that should be communicating, there is a far higher success rate among female driven communication.
While there are a lot of fakes out there only looking for some evening entertainment behind the safety of a keyboard, there is a number of single ladies active in the lifestyle. They have their pick of who they wish to meet, they don't need to respond to once off adverts or mails.
If you want to attract them, you need to do the hard work, stand out from the crowd and stimulate them. Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean people are bed hoping, there is no difference between meeting someone in a pub, at work or any other environment. You have to do the spade work if you going to get anywhere. The only difference with the site is we all understand the agenda.
Warming the Bed
Quote by MIKE_
At the last meet and greet in Cape Town, there we at least nine single ladies that I recall off the top of my head.
Mailing other users and placing adverts is the least productive way of meeting people on the site. Single ladies are bombarded by random mail, mostly crude. In addition 90% of couples, most other single ladies and ever single guy on site is looking to meet a unicorn, The odds against been the chosen are few.
In our experience on the site, we have found most people and especially the ladies want to get to know someone before meeting and that's why the chatroom works. I realise that its not always interesting and some find the pool boring, but people see you around, get to know you and through whispers, if done properly and over time meetings do happen.
Most ladies are attracted by the mind, mental stimulation switches them on, this can not be achieved through a few mails, it requires interaction over time and like it or not the chatroom is the only forum on the site that provided this.
When it comes to ffm, the focus is on the ladies, the male plays a secondary role and as such its the ladies that should be communicating, there is a far higher success rate among female driven communication.
While there are a lot of fakes out there only looking for some evening entertainment behind the safety of a keyboard, there is a number of single ladies active in the lifestyle. They have their pick of who they wish to meet, they don't need to respond to once off adverts or mails.
If you want to attract them, you need to do the hard work, stand out from the crowd and stimulate them. Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean people are bed hoping, there is no difference between meeting someone in a pub, at work or any other environment. You have to do the spade work if you going to get anywhere. The only difference with the site is we all understand the agenda.
Well said ,,all of our single lady friends we have meet using the chat room,Meet and Greets,It hard work but well worth last count was 12 single ladies at the Meet and Greet and we know them personally .
Quote by MIKE_
At the last meet and greet in Cape Town, there we at least nine single ladies that I recall off the top of my head.
Mailing other users and placing adverts is the least productive way of meeting people on the site. Single ladies are bombarded by random mail, mostly crude. In addition 90% of couples, most other single ladies and ever single guy on site is looking to meet a unicorn, The odds against been the chosen are few.
In our experience on the site, we have found most people and especially the ladies want to get to know someone before meeting and that's why the chatroom works. I realise that its not always interesting and some find the pool boring, but people see you around, get to know you and through whispers, if done properly and over time meetings do happen.
Most ladies are attracted by the mind, mental stimulation switches them on, this can not be achieved through a few mails, it requires interaction over time and like it or not the chatroom is the only forum on the site that provided this.
When it comes to ffm, the focus is on the ladies, the male plays a secondary role and as such its the ladies that should be communicating, there is a far higher success rate among female driven communication.
While there are a lot of fakes out there only looking for some evening entertainment behind the safety of a keyboard, there is a number of single ladies active in the lifestyle. They have their pick of who they wish to meet, they don't need to respond to once off adverts or mails.
If you want to attract them, you need to do the hard work, stand out from the crowd and stimulate them. Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean people are bed hoping, there is no difference between meeting someone in a pub, at work or any other environment. You have to do the spade work if you going to get anywhere. The only difference with the site is we all understand the agenda.
:small-print: brilliant
Lots of single fems here.
Treat them nicely, type proper mails, and you should be good.
I've met at least half a dozen very kinky ladies from this site. 
Chatted to loads more.
Even had two at once for a VERY hot 3some MFF meeting, where each wanted to explore their bi side, but was more comfortable doing it together.
Chatted to loads more.
Even had two at once for a VERY hot 3some MFF meeting, where each wanted to explore their bi side, but was more comfortable doing it together. 