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I think there's a better chance finding that flight data recorder of the MH370 than finding some extramural activity here where it's mostly for "swinging couples" and "non cheaters". :-) lokl I reckon having two responses for every ten messages sent is not so Ayoba. It's probably best to redirect my efforts to real life hooking up like pubs etc. ...had much better luck there.
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I think there's a better chance finding that flight data recorder of the MH370 than finding some extramural activity here where it's mostly for "swinging couples" and "non cheaters". :-) lokl
I reckon having two responses for every ten messages sent is not so Ayoba.
It's probably best to redirect my efforts to real life hooking up like pubs etc. ...had much better luck there.

Now while I have no doubt that whatever the success rate one has on this site, they would want a better rate. BUT, I am confused as to how many people say they get zero success on this site?
Or am I just setting my own bar too low? This site is rather successful, and I live outside of the big cities . . . rolleyes
I have had and still have zero success and you know how much I have complained... Yesterday I sent 4 messages to females (4). All have similar ads along the lines of "looking for a couple to play with". All within 30 km. All viewed my profile by the time I logged on today. All ignored my message! Lets take this back to start... I am very good looking. I am in shape. I am professional. I am a gentleman. I am respectful. My girl is extremely sexy. She is tanned and toned. Legs to die for! A bum to drive any person wild. Coke bottle figure! Amazing aqua-marine coloured eyes. Long wavy brunette hair. A bundle of fun! Outgoing and bubbly. Everyone who meets her absolutely adores her... So we are in my opinion a "desirable" couple. I will pay the bill for dinner or drinks. All my treat just for a meet and I specify this in every message. No intentions or expectations, just a night out and a good time and the ladies can decide what does or does not happen... But nothing ever materialises. What the hell could the problem be?? So again - my success rate - ZERO!!!!
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I have had and still have zero success and you know how much I have complained... Yesterday I sent 4 messages to females (4). All have similar ads along the lines of "looking for a couple to play with". All within 30 km. All viewed my profile by the time I logged on today. All ignored my message! Lets take this back to start... I am very good looking. I am in shape. I am professional. I am a gentleman. I am respectful. My girl is extremely sexy. She is tanned and toned. Legs to die for! A bum to drive any person wild. Coke bottle figure! Amazing aqua-marine coloured eyes. Long wavy brunette hair. A bundle of fun! Outgoing and bubbly. Everyone who meets her absolutely adores her... So we are in my opinion a "desirable" couple. I will pay the bill for dinner or drinks. All my treat just for a meet and I specify this in every message. No intentions or expectations, just a night out and a good time and the ladies can decide what does or does not happen... But nothing ever materialises. What the hell could the problem be?? So again - my success rate - ZERO!!!!

My 2 cents,
take out the "I will pay for everything" part in early messages, makes you sound like you will treat this as a business transaction (you know, rub & tug)
With your couple "effort", let your girl do some of the chatting.
Also, remember that when perusing perfect looking profiles they are probably not so perfect . . ..
Now buy me a beer
I agree with SDMR - I would cool it on all the commentary in the beginning - it makes you sound desperate. AND one of the MAIN things I look for in couple profiles is-> when SHE is the one chatting - I know we have a winner
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I agree with SDMR - I would cool it on all the commentary in the beginning - it makes you sound desperate.
AND one of the MAIN things I look for in couple profiles is-> when SHE is the one chatting - I know we have a winner

you see? LeeEC agrees, you should buy me a beer