To condom or Not to condom?

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How can one truly be sure that the person you are playing with is safe.. I guess for some people the risk is part of the excitement but then what?

I personally don't like condoms but it is what it is so you use it. 

Just insist on the damn condom and be done with it. 

Only if you are in a relationship where neither parties strays that is about the only time I don't use condoms after all the tests are done.  But I always insist on a second test after time just incase there is a period that things are undetected. 

The question to condom or not condom is moot if you are I this lifestyle in this day and age.

So just be safe people it's about mutual respect... And I have seen how people have no respect for one another. 

in light of Covid-19 pandemic i decided to do and HIV test at home, hoping for play dates in October 

Definitely no condom no play. Trust no one with your life. 

In the past, and by “past” we mean until two weeks ago when the corona virus scared the bejeezuz out of us, we only went bareback with our trusted old friends, namely three discrete married couples, Will’s best friend and my best friend. Newbies always had to play safe. Now we spend our weekends staying at home and swapping photos and videos. Not as much fun as watching each other have sex with others, but better that than a respirator. 

just remember some pics are those between husband and wife's  and therefore no condom 

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just remember some pics are those between husband and wife's  and therefore no condom 

 That's a given. But the OP specifically mentions single guys as I was going through photos hoping to entice some single guys to join us for a GB that hubby was planning. And it's on the single guys profile that we saw a lot of high risk play. Regular play partner or not. Its safety always for us. 

We have a byline and Everytime that it is used, the fact of condoms is floated.  When that happens, we say thank you, but no thanks.  It's just to easy to get people to go bareback.

We living in a world ruled by danger...Playing safe is a key....I have got used to reading the environment, looking for key hints all over the place....Most people I believe are safe and if you exposed to a group..yo amplifying your risk. If you know your your playmates and by been observant can pick up alot without knowing.

Ask, be aware, loook for signals and be honest works well. I believe that "Birds of a feather flock together..." Common sense and self preservation will rule so I say each situation will determine what to do and what not to do....

 Knowledge in itself will not change behaviour but the power of intuition and a woman has a 6th sense, they must use it wisely...

I am not a wild card, but have met with some amazing people on the site, so far the above has worked...BUT Play safe would still rule as all the medical researches who spend their days in laborarties would tell you so and they should k now..They give you the results

Well, I am currently in a 3 year sexual relationship and always use a condom when we have sex. If, for any reason, I'll have sex with any other person, I will also make sure I wear a condom. I know for sure where my dick has been, but I don't know the sexual whereabouts of people I might come into contact with. I'd rather be safe than sorry.