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playtime123789
Warming the Bed
Occasionally I would scan the personals, looking to see who is "marketing' what, and I am constantly amazed at the sort of 'advertisements' I see. Everytime, I am left wondering whether the particular person looking to attract whatever it is that they are hoping to attract, has a snowballs chance in hell of success ! Why would a lady respond to something like "I want to suck your pussy'....thats it! Thats the personal Ad, no more ! ... or a couple to "I have some time and would love to fuck your wife!' ?? I dont get it...well clearly not, because these types of Ads are in abundance, so must be working ? Are there people out there that respond? I have placed one or two of my own Ads in the past, and have always been careful to try and write something a little more articulate - my success rate is not a matter of conjecture :smile: I must confess, that these days I look at the personals not in hope, but as a source of amusement....
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Hi, Very interesting comment May one ask you what success rate you have had from your adds or in general on this site ? I saw some one here saying the same in there add I want suck your ----- but when I checked there profile I was so amazed at the amount for friends this person had on the profile friends ! Awaiting you views
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I am a decent guy (I believe). I do not request a "fuck" from anyone. I am always polite and honest. I contact people with greetings and chat request only at first. If I advertise (very seldom do so, 3 times in the last year I think), I never use that kind of language or insinuate that I just want sex. But believe it or not, this has lost me a chance to shag a super gorgeous hottie once! I replied to an ad with a very well thought out polite, decent message. Used intelligent words and compliments, the whole 9 yards... Got a reply back along these lines: "I am not looking for a nice guy thanks! I am looking for a bad boy to fuck me hard and rough!"... All types here my friend. I never know anymore what to do. Lately, I am just happy to get a reply...
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Hi, Very interesting comment May one ask you what success rate you have had from your adds or in general on this site ? I saw some one here saying the same in there add I want suck your ----- but when I checked there profile I was so amazed at the amount for friends this person had on the profile friends ! Awaiting you views
playtime123789
Warming the Bed
Quote by Woody
Hi,
Very interesting comment
May one ask you what success rate you have had from your adds or in general on this site ?
I saw some one here saying the same in there add I want suck your ----- but when I checked there profile I was so amazed at the amount for friends this person had on the profile friends !
Awaiting you views

Hi Woody
My success rate on this site is really not important, and not indicitive of the few personals I have put out (2 or 3)
Having said that, its not been as successful as one would obviously like. I choose to believe thats its either :
A) Because I fit a particularily difficult profile group, ie, married and playing solo.
B) I get to say no thank you to profiles / people that I just dont think would work for me / us. Because Im married and solo doesnt mean I cant make choices too.
C) Maybe its just cause I'm an A#$ hole ! lol:lol::lol::lol:
As for the friends , it doesnt take much to befriend anyone, doesnt mean you play with them, or have even met for that matter. Maybe they're just friendly folk? I would guess that some people use a friends list as barometer for how popular they are too...
Stamina relates a story about where he missed out, and then ends off nicely by saying 'it takes all types' Its not judgemental, its just the way it is, so I dont worry about it.
Amen, and happy hunting
playtime123789
Warming the Bed
Quote by Stamina
I am a decent guy (I believe). I do not request a "fuck" from anyone. I am always polite and honest. I contact people with greetings and chat request only at first. If I advertise (very seldom do so, 3 times in the last year I think), I never use that kind of language or insinuate that I just want sex. But believe it or not, this has lost me a chance to shag a super gorgeous hottie once! I replied to an ad with a very well thought out polite, decent message. Used intelligent words and compliments, the whole 9 yards... Got a reply back along these lines: "I am not looking for a nice guy thanks! I am looking for a bad boy to fuck me hard and rough!"... All types here my friend.
I never know anymore what to do. Lately, I am just happy to get a reply...

Go figure !
Maybe those Ads work better than we think. At this point a good marketer would think about restrategising??
Indeed, many ways to skin to a cat!
SDM
Sex God
Quote by playtime123789
I am a decent guy (I believe). I do not request a "fuck" from anyone. I am always polite and honest. I contact people with greetings and chat request only at first. If I advertise (very seldom do so, 3 times in the last year I think), I never use that kind of language or insinuate that I just want sex. But believe it or not, this has lost me a chance to shag a super gorgeous hottie once! I replied to an ad with a very well thought out polite, decent message. Used intelligent words and compliments, the whole 9 yards... Got a reply back along these lines: "I am not looking for a nice guy thanks! I am looking for a bad boy to fuck me hard and rough!"... All types here my friend.
I never know anymore what to do. Lately, I am just happy to get a reply...

Go figure !
Maybe those Ads work better than we think. At this point a good marketer would think about restrategising??
Indeed, many ways to skin to a cat!
One way is to personalise the wink . . . . I have read a number of profiles that clearly state "do not send system generated messages" so when you personalise the wink, it is useful for those kinds and for the kinds that one is just not sure about (a method of gauging)
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Quote by SDMR
I am a decent guy (I believe). I do not request a "fuck" from anyone. I am always polite and honest. I contact people with greetings and chat request only at first. If I advertise (very seldom do so, 3 times in the last year I think), I never use that kind of language or insinuate that I just want sex. But believe it or not, this has lost me a chance to shag a super gorgeous hottie once! I replied to an ad with a very well thought out polite, decent message. Used intelligent words and compliments, the whole 9 yards... Got a reply back along these lines: "I am not looking for a nice guy thanks! I am looking for a bad boy to fuck me hard and rough!"... All types here my friend.
I never know anymore what to do. Lately, I am just happy to get a reply...

Go figure !
Maybe those Ads work better than we think. At this point a good marketer would think about restrategising??
Indeed, many ways to skin to a cat!
One way is to personalise the wink . . . . I have read a number of profiles that clearly state "do not send system generated messages" so when you personalise the wink, it is useful for those kinds and for the kinds that one is just not sure about (a method of gauging)
My secret is out... Was wondering when people would start figuring this out... He he he...
Unknown User
Quote by playtime123789
I am a decent guy (I believe). I do not request a "fuck" from anyone. I am always polite and honest. I contact people with greetings and chat request only at first. If I advertise (very seldom do so, 3 times in the last year I think), I never use that kind of language or insinuate that I just want sex. But believe it or not, this has lost me a chance to shag a super gorgeous hottie once! I replied to an ad with a very well thought out polite, decent message. Used intelligent words and compliments, the whole 9 yards... Got a reply back along these lines: "I am not looking for a nice guy thanks! I am looking for a bad boy to fuck me hard and rough!"... All types here my friend.
I never know anymore what to do. Lately, I am just happy to get a reply...

Go figure !
Maybe those Ads work better than we think. At this point a good marketer would think about restrategising??
Indeed, many ways to skin to a cat!
Hi Playtime,
Sorry I was not trying to get information on success rate on the site .
But was thinking the same as you the ads with I want to suck your ----- do they get more responses ?
By the amount of friends on there profile maybe it does work ?