Nelspruit Meet

We were wondering what the interest would be around an “undercover” meet and greet in Nelspruit? The plan we’re thinking about is any interested person, couple and/or single in the lifestyle all arrange to meet at a certain date and time at one of the pubs or venues in nelspruit, communicated by advert on here. You’d wear an identifying item so others would know you were part of the game, so to speak and would be welcome to approach, introduce and chat to others in the group. There’s so much secrecy going on here and fear about being recognized that meetings are a rarity. Thoughts?

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Sounds like a great idea. We would drive down for that

Dit sal n goeie plan wees

Ek is game...dit is n briljante idea....

I like

Fantastic idea.

I'm not close enough, but it does sound a roaring idea

Ek hou van die idee... Klink baie sexy en opwindend.

Net bang daar gaan te veel mans wees

As per Morne says, unfortunately not all the couples are into single dudes and many prefer a couple or a lady.

The concept is good, hopefully boundaries are kept including privacy and respect. Yet Nelspruit is known for knocking another's peg down for personal gain.

So where and when?

I have the perfect venue for such a meeting. Mabalel Lodge just outside Nelspruit, secluded and off the main road. There is a Bar, swimming pool and 8 rooms available for anyone that would like to take things into a more private setting... Rooms are R250 for 2 hours...

Mabalel and similar venues sort of defeat the object of this idea. The intention is a no pressure, no expectation meet and greet. If people want to play they can move off to private accommodation. Meeting at a known play venue creates pressure that some people want to avoid. Once this meet is done more specific parties can be arranged between interested people.

I see your point, makes a lot of sense to rather do it other way around yes... Was just a suggestion.

The pub, maybe a saterday afternoon, Jock to busy, too many known faces and can get a bit crazy. or some place as such

The Pub sounds like a good idea... Jock does get rather busy on a weekend...

Might be interested in a no expectation meet and greet....

Watching 😉

The thinking behind Jock is because it’s busy. A group of people doesn’t really stand out and if anyone is uncomfortable they can just avoid the area. But any ideas are welcome. Our thinking was one of the “night spots” in town. Anyone welcome, limiting it seems pointless as anyone reading the ad would be able to go and identify the people anyway. But very clear rules. An approach and an introduction based on the “identifying” item. Absolutely no expectation besides a decent chat and no pressure. That applies to couples and singles as in our experience it’s not only singles who need reminding occasionally. Make some connections and go on with whatever you like.

Discretion is expected but honestly, if you’re terrified of being identified then you shouldn’t meet locally anyway. We’ve met more Nelspruit people at Jhb clubs than we have down here 😂. Not much you can do about this except throw caution to the wind.

The other option is a lifestyle party at a closed venue. We’ve thought about this. Same rules obviously except you could only join if you were interested or in the lifestyle. So no secret onlookers could see the ad and identify people. Also a meet and greet with no pressure but there would be rooms for people to play if they clicked and probably some nudity. Which is not a bad thing …

Well so far nice feedback. The proof is in the pie , excuse the pun

Lyk of hier n groot belangstelling is een van die dae kan ons die soccer stadium huur🤣

like the sands falling the hour glass......so has this idea,,,,,,,

or are thing been played like harry potter, all secrecy and hidden

Nope. Just too much happening in the real world right now. Once we’ve decided how we’d like to move forward we’ll put it out here.

Dit klink na die regte manier om n ding te doen dankie julle

Yes when and where?

We also would make a plan to visit we from Marloth

Yes

We’re putting some ideas together to plan this during the next 6 weeks or so. Keep an eye out for details.

Goeie idee. Sal bywoon