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Identification of swingers in a public place such as malls

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Folks.

Here is a topic for a small discussion:

Are there signs to spot/identify a swinger/s with in public places such as shopping malls; if Yes, what are they?

I was also wondering the same thing. How can you see if a couple or single is into the lifestyle? Maybe the way they way they spread or bend fingers etc.

This is the international Swinger community Symbol. Tattoo, jewellery etc.

swinging is a lifestyle and people meet in various ways .. such as sites or parties or even word of mouth. It's  not like a secret society that has a secret handshake or sign or word.. 

I don't know in South Africa if the signs are the same but overseas the is alot like the upside down pineapple the black wedding band on your right hand ankle bracelet and yes the is swinger jewelry with a specific sign

Have not seen any in South Africa except for the black wedding band on the right hand 

There was an article published here on SH recently. Something about a ring or black ring on the right hand

Will look it up again. But one sign i noticed abroad was that some pple carry their car key in their left hand and the ring of the key hooked into their small finger.

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swinging is a lifestyle and people meet in various ways .. such as sites or parties or even word of mouth. It's  not like a secret society that has a secret handshake or sign or word.. 

Bracelet on the ankle?

Bracelet on the ankle is a symbol of "hotwife" to my understanding however I stand to be corrected.

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Bracelet on the ankle is a symbol of "hotwife" to my understanding however I stand to be corrected.

I have seen a lot of black women with bracelet on the ankle but with no clue at all about swinging lifestyle

Remember some may use it as just fashion and style not really knowing what is symbolises, same as tattoo arts!!

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I have seen a lot of black women with bracelet on the ankle but with no clue at all about swinging lifestyle

There isn't a universal sign, as far as I understand. A black ring on the right hand (ring finger mostly, middle finger never) is also seen as an indicator, but these things should always be seen as hints, not signs.

Unless she's wearing a t-shirt that reads "It's not cheating if hubby watches", of course...

I am glad though, to see a lot of young black people joining this lifestyle

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I am glad though, to see a lot of young black people joining this lifestyle

Well I agree with you there, I've been in the lifestyle for over 10yrs and I must say I see the difference now.

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Well I agree with you there, I've been in the lifestyle for over 10yrs and I must say I see the difference now.

And I think Gauteng is leading in that respect

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And I think Gauteng is leading in that respect

Gauteng is leading with couples and CPT has more bulls who engage in hotwife activities.

My only wish would be that the site admins remove fake profiles and inactive profile are becoming more than the active ones, imagine searching for a specific individual on the search bar then boom +-20 profiles all last seen over 90 days!!