glad to hear from you and shouldnot be too difficult. lets get started with a cup of coffee. what do y think
well Mr Nice guy..I for one fully agree with what you express..my theory is that the ultimate orgasm is being searched for..the throw away line of "see you around.." totally insincere, so if any of us could form a genuine circle with easy going people that can ultimately keep a conversation going for more than 2 mins and enjoy one another and share, it would be great..but somehow I think that us all being male and sexual beings it will be difficult! Id be very keen to give it a try though!
Well guys I have kept my eyes on this forum since it was posted.
IT CAN BE DONE!!!And it has been done by other swinger sites and with great success !!!!!!
The only thing that should be done is to get a date, time and a venue .
Then advertise it as a MEET & GREET Let the people of Swing Heaven come and we all sit and talk and chat and get to know each other. NOT FOR SEX NOT FOR PLAY it is networking to get to know the other profiles,the people you chat to and exchange mails with.
Hold the meeting at a club or restaurant or at a picnic who comes can wear something to identify yourself as a Swing Heaven groupie...... we drink eat and be merry and move around and chat to each other,we get to know the people behind the profile.
We can then AFTERWARDS decide whom we like to meet up and play with....then one can go and sent a mail and say I am so and so...we met and we chatted can it become MORE???
But on the night of meeting...well, if you lucky to meet someone whom you decide to go home with your indaba...but IT IS NOT THE EXPECTED norm of such a meeting.
Once a month or every second month and people soosn know each other and we become a GROUP...not just unknowns behind a keyboard.
Let the profiles who wants to attend add their names to whom is going to attend so everyone knows how many is going to go,and whom is going.
Who ever initiates this can be a host to oversee and introduce people to each other.
please include me and good luck!. thanks zach
anything happening or another farce?
Seems like nothing is really going to happen ...sadly.....
Does not have to be parties etc
Had a number of groups through the years, all loosely combined.
If you wake up horny you will always find a friend to help out, sometimes more than one and at times it evan ended up in an orgy
This was males and females, one particular bi friend used to call me when his female cousin, very horny, was there and we would have a lovely threesome, or sometimes he would visit me and the wife
At this point we have a group developing again, about 8 men and women, most we were together was 5, but often only 2
SOrry ive been quiet .... i have had some serious business commitments that needing my focus so ..unfortunatley this didnt take priority....
I have secured a safe clean venue and it is centrally located in CT ( near Canal walk)...
I am really keen to get this off the ground and would be awesome if we could network like this...
However.. the page needs more ppl inorder for this to be considered..
Background on me ...
I am an events organiser so u can rest assured that this will happen ... and will be awesome... we just need to attract more interested ppl...
Lets make it classic!
MRNiceGuy
sounds cool, if y need some help, send me a message
Just An Update!
Awesome response from all you guys...Data base is grown quiet a bit ...
Thanx to all who took the time to get involved.
To those of you who have already linked... and new bonds formed...well done..
After the huge and amazing success of the summer sunset picnic the
Plans for the winter warmer social are coming on nicely ... limited space ,so keep an eye on ur emails for date and venue.
Ladies , remember ...if you bringing a friend just let me know...or we end up with too many F2M ratios again.
Remember... No discrimination... Just respect ( and protection).... open to all!
:-)
I'm keen to join if there is another meeting.
it shouldnt be difficult and yet....my experience has been a mixed bag. im an exceptionally busy lady with work and studies occupying a huge portion of my time. ive had guys become angry or upset with me when I don't respond to their messages quickly enough. im not into enabling someones cheating so I state this on my profile...and yet.... ai!
Im up for it...although it does seem as if its a whole lot of false advertising and teases
The problem is there r 1000s of guys interested an no wmen....the ladies cant say yes bcoz then those 1000s all want a piece
?..
Best way to make this happen is to set a time and a place and just go for it... whats the worst that can happen right?
OK, so here goes.... Jess and I will drive to Rondebosch Common tonight between 7-8pm. If we spot other couples there we will stop and have fun... if we do a drive by and only guys in the parking lot then "no dice."
If we arrive and there is at least one other couple then "game on!"
Flash your headlights 2times to indicate that you are there to play, then park nice and close but make sure everbody gets a nice view of each other. For now the rules are everybody stays in or around there own car, no swapping or touching... lets ease into it and see how we go.
Hi guys and gals, dont know if this group is still active and organizing events... if so we are keen to join in the fun.
How did it go jabbawocky?
Did u go to the common? Meet any couples? If i had know u were going i wouldnhave bden there. Im sure it was probably filled with guys hoping to get a view
Same us usual we went and nobody else was there icon_ Even waited for half an hour with no takers. Pretty dissapoitning turn out.
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Lol
I have the exact thing in mind...
my plan was to host semi formal style parties in and around CT to build this network and create contacts in a stress free, no obligation enviroment,....
I have some really nice places that can cater to this where it is safe for all to express themselves and meet other like minded ppl...
I have a simple request in order for us to get this under way...
anyone that reads this post and is from CT and is keen and interested,,,.. please post below
: " please include me/us...we are interested "
and i will do the rest ,...
any1 interested in helping out ...can send me an inbox message!
MRNiCeGuY..... 
