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Can one care too much

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This topic will raise many opinions but it would be nice to see what and how others think or feel.

Can one care too much about the person they love or care about,

for eg...... your partner taking a long trip, check ins or geo tag or shared locations.

does one need to show or leave as be ?

your partner going alone to a meet with a stranger ?

your partner not been forth right or truly open and honest ?

Many subjects can be opened up in many reasons...…regardless of the circumstance's, can a person truly care too much for the other that he, or she go into a frenzy or worry and sometimes loose their minds for a moment ?

lets hear your views, remember no attacking or been rude, just how it affects you as person

Is that caring too much or controlling too much? The only time I would ask my wife to check in is if I know she is traveling far or has to go to a dangerous area. Too much care might be a lack of trust. If anyone is at that point, the problem is already there. No attack, just an opinion.

Our opinion what works for us don't "swing" without your partner don't meet alone share the experience collectively enjoy it and go back to each other, be honest and open at all times with your partner, involving others is tricky you have to ask the hard questions.

Remember the reasons for starting down this path and don't stray the minute it becomes about individual pleasure excluding the team is the end of the team!

Care too much, no, they can't.

Can a person cross a line between healthy vs toxic behaviours, whether inwardly or outwardly destructive, of others or self? For damn sure they can.

That all said though, its very important to make sure take approach of clear, transparent communication with intent to hear and understand all perspectives. One has to ensure see the WHOLE picture, the past and present, without bias, free of any possible manipulation.

Respect, patient, tolerance, all these things people love to demand of others, all go both ways. Just because something isnt your cup of tea, doesn't mean the other person is a problem, let alone the problem, as it could be party claiming 'innocence' in the situation is the problem by being intolerant, impatient, selfish, void of compassion for the needs impacted by past traumas/experiences etc of the other.

Move on, let go, it was not meant to be. Heal ❤️‍🩹

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Move on, let go, it was not meant to be. Heal ❤️‍🩹

LOL....Heal........that sounds so nice , truly does, if only it were true. Love has no bounds, no end nor start, its cycle never ends regardless of how its treated.