Playing without your partner knowing

2 Jun 2015

If your partner promised to keep you happy in the bedroom and now only does it twice a year you or anybody out there cannot blame someone from seeking fun elsewhere its not a affair only NSA fun. I wonder if wondering ladies get treated the same as men that do it without their partners consent and there are plenty or is the discrimination only against men. One more thing my private life is private I don't want to know anything about the private lives of people I meet here its called being discreet and usually NSA fun. Usually a person playing without consent will not try and steal your partner like some singles would. They also well groomed, clean and respect full it is part of their other life style so it those people that think that we are not good for the life style that are loosing out, just my point of view. If I knew then what I knew now I would also be single like l said breaking up with your partner is not always a solution. Ces't la vie.

10 Jun 2015

Quote by daretostare04
If your partner promised to keep you happy in the bedroom and now only does it twice a year you or anybody out there cannot blame someone from seeking fun elsewhere its not a affair only NSA fun. I wonder if wondering ladies get treated the same as men that do it without their partners consent and there are plenty or is the discrimination only against men. One more thing my private life is private I don't want to know anything about the private lives of people I meet here its called being discreet and usually NSA fun. Usually a person playing without consent will not try and steal your partner like some singles would. They also well groomed, clean and respect full it is part of their other life style so it those people that think that we are not good for the life style that are loosing out, just my point of view. If I knew then what I knew now I would also be single like l said breaking up with your partner is not always a solution. Ces't la vie.

From the perspective of a couple playing with someone that is playing on the side. The potential complications when the other person's partner finds out are horrific. That is where your private life gets exposed because all your facebook contacts are messaged, all your colleagues, the local noticeboard gets your number on, and so forth. Basically as revenge they go out of their way to contact anyone that you have contact with to spread the news.
Then they decide to patch things up and you are suddenly the couple that lead the straying partner down the wrong path and the fact that the straying partner strayed is laid, squarely at your feet, the fact that straying partner was on a site like this and you never even knew that they existed before meeting them from this site does not even feature in the logic.
If they decide to get divorced all the above happens, and to top it off you get named as the cause for the breakdown of the marriage in court papers. Maybe even called into court to confirm it (if the aggrieved partner is really out for revenge) so you can profess to the world the details of being a swinger, or you can lie and take the risk of being caught perjuring yourself and end up with some jail time.
So do you now understand some (not even all) of the risks involved by playing with someone in a relationship?