Quote by daretostare04
Hi I'm new to this site but have had my add in a adult magazine for about 8 years and had no problem with being married and playing alone it is a swingers mag. Only since I have been on this site do I find this is a definite no here. I don't see why if I am honest up front what is the problem cheating together as a couple or cheating alone without your wife's consent is a sin in the eye of your maker as far as I know. If your wife does not want to do the bedroom duties must you force her and to me divorce is not a solution I have been down that road. Surely a man that has a partner is less likely to try and take away another mans wife than a single guy, just putting it out there, some couples seem to agree but only a few here.
From the perspective of a couple playing with someone that is playing on the side. The potential complications when the other person's partner finds out are horrific. That is where your private life gets exposed because all your facebook contacts are messaged, all your colleagues, the local noticeboard gets your number on, and so forth. Basically as revenge they go out of their way to contact anyone that you have contact with to spread the news.
Then they decide to patch things up and you are suddenly the couple that lead the straying partner down the wrong path and the fact that the straying partner strayed is laid, squarely at your feet, the fact that straying partner was on a site like this and you never even knew that they existed before meeting them from this site does not even feature in the logic.
If they decide to get divorced all the above happens, and to top it off you get named as the cause for the breakdown of the marriage in court papers. Maybe even called into court to confirm it (if the aggrieved partner is really out for revenge) so you can profess to the world the details of being a swinger, or you can lie and take the risk of being caught perjuring yourself and end up with some jail time.
So do you now understand some (not even all) of the risks involved by playing with someone in a relationship?
