Quote by Voyer1105
do not equate squirting with pleasure or satisfaction
My wife is always satisfied, multi orgasmic, and in all the years has only squirted once, did not know what it
was
Have a lady friend that also squirted once, did not know how it happened, still don't know
I think it is lots of foreplay and attention
Quote by LeeEC
Quite right Voyeur - KC and I had a conversation about this a little while ago - while she finds that squirting, builds her pleasure, I find it has very little effect at all on my pleasure. Everyone is different I!!
Squirting is something both need to know about - It doesn't just happen
The woman needs to know what she needs to do to achieve a squirting orgasm
The man needs to know what / how / when and his way around the vagina in order to get her to squirt.
I've heard of too many stories where the man uses his fingers and jack hammers her pussy to get her to squirt - they watch too much porn.
I spent many hours reading up and researching how the female orgasm happens and how the pussy works.
I've yet to be with a woman who I've not been able to get to squirt, that's of course those who have wanted to squirt - it takes time and patience. The mind blowing orgasm they have is beyond anything they have experienced, but they must want to experience it and be open to allowing and trusting their partner to take them to that place where they basically lose control.
I have a very vanilla wife, she has seen squirting in porn, when i asked if she has ever squirted, she looked at me funny and said they were peeing.
During all my research i started testing learnt skills on her without her even knowing what my end goal was. I was getting her to the point where i was sure it would happen but she kept backing off telling me she was going to pee, when she went, there was no pee, very confusing, i played dumb and convinced her to let it roll let i happen and see what the result was.
When it did happen she was a bit tipsy and very horney after fairly rawkus wedding reception we had been to, I was playing with her the whole way home while driving and by the time we got to the bed she was dripping wet. the minute I started fingering her i could tell she was gonna let anything happen just to get off - 1 finger became 2 and then 3, I was stretching her and kept massaging her spot in the hope she wouldn't back off - she was getting wetter and wetter and suddenly started to orgasm and bearing down and pushing like when you give birth, i encouraged her to push harder, try push my fingers out, which she did with a loud grunt her pussy exploded, I actually got a fright, but she squirted across the bed, by now her back was arched with her ass completely off the bed, thrusting her hips with more pushing like she wanted more - she squirted 4 or 5 times and then collapsed almost passed out her whole body shuddering - she was nearly in tears (tears of joy - I promise i never hurt her) she was like WTF just happened, i said you just had your first squirting orgasm. she sat up and looked at the bed and said no way, thats pee ! - I said smell it - she did, it doesn't smell and dries very quickly on the sheets.
After this event it was normal for her to want it at least once a week. If i came to bed and found a towel, bottle of water (women get very dehydrated when squirting a lot) and lube on my pillow I knew what she wanted, no talk, I just knew i would be busy for an hour, especially if she was stressed out - she said it was like doing a heavy gym session for an hour - its very draining for the women due to the intensity but the release very satisfying, she said it was like floating on a cloud afterwards and she didn't have a care in the world.
At times I would start to remove the towel and she would be like, just leave it and give me 10 min, and we would start again.
My wife really squirted large volumes in 4 or 5 squirts or jets (if you could call it that) and could go 2 or 3 times in one night but mostly she was so drained she was done after the first round.
Unfortunately the big menopause hit her hard and we haven't done it in 10 years now, we haven't even had sex in the last 3 years - A compete fuckup But that's story for another time.
I have also learnt over time with other women i been with - you get different types if squirters - Some women just get very wet and it kind of dribbles out - Others really release a lot of fluid and it runs out with not much pressure so not really squirting, even if they push. these are the best because as long as you keep up the massaging you can roll the orgasm for as long as she wants and as long as she is cresting her juices will keep flowing. I also realized that the vagina becomes distended and open during this type of orgasm, so if you into fisting, like me, then this is the perfect time to try insert your hand and stretch her out. My wife has a fairly small pussy and certainly wont take my fist, but I've managed to go wrist deep on 2 occasions while she was squirting, which of course just added to the intensity.
A word of caution though - her squirt juices are very alkaline and have no lubrication capacity and like it dries quickly on the sheets they will also dry up her pussy - so make sure you keep using a lot of lube, or her pussy is going be raw and very sore afterwards.
Long winded post, but i hope it helps some people get to enjoy this very misunderstood form of female orgasm
happy squirting people
Quote by zodiacsa
Squirting is something both need to know about - It doesn't just happen
The woman needs to know what she needs to do to achieve a squirting orgasm
The man needs to know what / how / when and his way around the vagina in order to get her to squirt.
I've heard of too many stories where the man uses his fingers and jack hammers her pussy to get her to squirt - they watch too much porn.
I spent many hours reading up and researching how the female orgasm happens and how the pussy works.
I've yet to be with a woman who I've not been able to get to squirt, that's of course those who have wanted to squirt - it takes time and patience. The mind blowing orgasm they have is beyond anything they have experienced, but they must want to experience it and be open to allowing and trusting their partner to take them to that place where they basically lose control.
I have a very vanilla wife, she has seen squirting in porn, when i asked if she has ever squirted, she looked at me funny and said they were peeing.
During all my research i started testing learnt skills on her without her even knowing what my end goal was. I was getting her to the point where i was sure it would happen but she kept backing off telling me she was going to pee, when she went, there was no pee, very confusing, i played dumb and convinced her to let it roll let i happen and see what the result was.
When it did happen she was a bit tipsy and very horney after fairly rawkus wedding reception we had been to, I was playing with her the whole way home while driving and by the time we got to the bed she was dripping wet. the minute I started fingering her i could tell she was gonna let anything happen just to get off - 1 finger became 2 and then 3, I was stretching her and kept massaging her spot in the hope she wouldn't back off - she was getting wetter and wetter and suddenly started to orgasm and bearing down and pushing like when you give birth, i encouraged her to push harder, try push my fingers out, which she did with a loud grunt her pussy exploded, I actually got a fright, but she squirted across the bed, by now her back was arched with her ass completely off the bed, thrusting her hips with more pushing like she wanted more - she squirted 4 or 5 times and then collapsed almost passed out her whole body shuddering - she was nearly in tears (tears of joy - I promise i never hurt her) she was like WTF just happened, i said you just had your first squirting orgasm. she sat up and looked at the bed and said no way, thats pee ! - I said smell it - she did, it doesn't smell and dries very quickly on the sheets.
After this event it was normal for her to want it at least once a week. If i came to bed and found a towel, bottle of water (women get very dehydrated when squirting a lot) and lube on my pillow I knew what she wanted, no talk, I just knew i would be busy for an hour, especially if she was stressed out - she said it was like doing a heavy gym session for an hour - its very draining for the women due to the intensity but the release very satisfying, she said it was like floating on a cloud afterwards and she didn't have a care in the world.
At times I would start to remove the towel and she would be like, just leave it and give me 10 min, and we would start again.
My wife really squirted large volumes in 4 or 5 squirts or jets (if you could call it that) and could go 2 or 3 times in one night but mostly she was so drained she was done after the first round.
Unfortunately the big menopause hit her hard and we haven't done it in 10 years now, we haven't even had sex in the last 3 years - A compete fuckup But that's story for another time.
I have also learnt over time with other women i been with - you get different types if squirters - Some women just get very wet and it kind of dribbles out - Others really release a lot of fluid and it runs out with not much pressure so not really squirting, even if they push. these are the best because as long as you keep up the massaging you can roll the orgasm for as long as she wants and as long as she is cresting her juices will keep flowing. I also realized that the vagina becomes distended and open during this type of orgasm, so if you into fisting, like me, then this is the perfect time to try insert your hand and stretch her out. My wife has a fairly small pussy and certainly wont take my fist, but I've managed to go wrist deep on 2 occasions while she was squirting, which of course just added to the intensity.
A word of caution though - her squirt juices are very alkaline and have no lubrication capacity and like it dries quickly on the sheets they will also dry up her pussy - so make sure you keep using a lot of lube, or her pussy is going be raw and very sore afterwards.
Long winded post, but i hope it helps some people get to enjoy this very misunderstood form of female orgasm
happy squirting people
This was a brilliant read and the way you describe her first squirting orgasm is exactly how I experienced mine. Beautifully written and it’s wonderful you took the time to learn. 😗
This conversation about squirting is very intriguing, and has always made me think about it. If you watch a blue movie you see what they say is squirting but I think they pee, because when I squirt, I squirt from the vagina which dries me out because I wash out my natural lubrication and have to keep adding. So would say some woman pee and some squirt?
Quote by oldduckgoat
This conversation about squirting is very intriguing, and has always made me think about it. If you watch a blue movie you see what they say is squirting but I think they pee, because when I squirt, I squirt from the vagina which dries me out because I wash out my natural lubrication and have to keep adding. So would say some woman pee and some squirt?
Most pee don't have a clue how to squirt. Easy when you know how though. Squirt is oudourless colourless and tasteless and doesnt leave stains.
My humble 2cents on the topic:
Its not about if a lady can or can't squirt, its about if you, as the person pleasing her, knows what you doing or not.
Pleasing a woman goes far beyond simply stimulating her physical form. The most important erogenous zone cant be touched by your hands.
A woman can have experienced squirting hundreds of times previously in her life, but if you dont know what you doing, dont make her feel safe and secure, in the right mental space, she aint squirting for you, never will.
Its a emotional, mental state, not a physical one.